Hello, guys, I don’t know where to start, I haven’t posted in about 8 months but I have to post today because today is the birthday of the man who made this whole blog possible and that is my brother. You guys know I never post anything personal here but today I don’t know how can I wish my brother on his special day that’s why I am using this platform which is one of the best and lovable platform on the whole internet. He is the man who made this blog for me, he even edited my first two posts, he motivated me to write when I am low. He is always there for me not only for this blog but for everything. I always appreciate him in my heart but I never said this to him but today I am gonna say, my brother, I love you from my heart, happy birthday.
Hello!!! Everyone, In today’s world appearance, is a very important thing.”Everyone wants to look good”.And in order to achieve that, people are doing everything.Whereas In olden days if you’re not so good looking then you ask God that, why God has made you like that? And you always remain sad because of not looking good.
Whereas if you are not so good looking in today’s modern world.Then you don’t cry.”You just directly go to the mall and buy good looking face or in easy words, you buy cosmetic products or beauty products”.
So, what is a cosmetic product?
a preparation applied to the body, especially the face, to improve its appearance.
Male readers or the people who hate cosmetic products right now are thinking to stop reading this article.But if you like philosophy then, I think you might stay.And the people who hate philosophy but love cosmetic products then, I don’t think that I need to say to you to stay.
Generally, people consider cosmetic products as a thing to shine our body not our character.
And even the people who use beauty products also hate using beauty products.Still, they use it to shine their body.
But according to me, if you look carefully then, “you are gonna find valuable life lesson from beauty products also”.
There are a lot of beauty products like lip gloss, eyeliner, foundation, nail polish, blush and many more.And today we are gonna talk about “mascara”.
So, what is a mascara?
a cosmetic for darkening and thickening the eyelashes.
This is the definition of mascara.But I disagree with this definition.According to me, mascara is like backlash.
And what is a backlash?
a strong negative reaction by a people’s.
If you look carefully then, “your gonna find that backlash is also a beauty product but it is a beauty product for our character”.Just like mascara used to improve our appearance, backlash can also improve our character if we apply it properly to ourself just like mascara.
So, let’s see how to use mascara or backlash to improve our appearance or character.
Know about your eyelashes or your bad qualities:-
“Mascara is used to make our eyelashes beautiful”.So you have to understand that what type of eyelashes you have and what type of mascara you need to make the appearance of your eyelashes beautiful.
If you have short lashes, look for a lengthening mascara with a smaller brush with thick bristles.And if you use a small brush for short lashes then it will help you to coat each lash perfectly.
And If your lashes are uneven in length or damaged then, use mascara which contains “phyto-keratin and panthenol”.Because the mascara which contains these ingredients helps in lashes to growth.So the use of mascara depends upon on your eyelashes.
Exactly like that first, “we also have to understand that for what thing we are receiving backlash from people”.Whether it is because of our way of talking, or because of our laziness, or because of any other bad quality.So, you have to understand that for what thing you are receiving backlash.And if you understand it properly then, you can work on it to improve yourself so that you cannot receive any backlash in future.
Different eyelashes = Different mascara.
Different backlash = Different solution.
Eyelash curler or mediation:-
If you wanted that you have perfect eyelashes then you need an eyelash curler.”Eyelash curler will lift your lashes due to which your eyes will look bigger and brighter”.
Exactly like that if you want your character to be perfect then, you need mediation.Because mediation will lift your thinking.”By which you understand better about why people are backlashing about you”.And due to which you can work on them.And if you do this then, your character will become bigger and brighter.
lift eyelashes by curler and character by mediation.
Other makeup or self-evaluation first:-
Before applying mascara apply other makeup first like eyeliner, eyeshadow.So that mascara cannot be smudge while applying these makeup.
Exactly like that first look at yourself that what negative or bad qualities you have and try to improve them.Afterward, listen to people’s backlash.
Do other makeup and self-evaluation first.
Excessive mascara or backlash:-
While taking mascara from tube wipe out excessive mascara on the tip of the tube.”Too much mascara can lead to clumping”.
“Exactly like that we also have to listen to people’s backlash in balance quantity and try to work only on them”.If you listen to each and every people’s backlash then your gonna became depressed and sad.
Wipe excessive mascara and backlash.
Open mouth and brain:-
Maximum people have fear of blinking of eyes while applying mascara.”So if you open your mouth wide then it is harder for eyes to blink”.
Exactly like that generally, people lose their cool or have fear of losing their cool, when people backlash about them.So “if you open your brain wide then, you will understand them better”.And if you do this then, you listen to there backlash with calm and cool nature.
Open your mouth while applying mascara and open your brain while listening to people’s backlash.
Roots of eyelashes or soul:-
Apply mascara to eyelashes with the help of a wand.”Wiggle the wand to the base of eyelashes so that most product apply to the roots of eyelashes”.By which they look longer and this keeps them from getting weighted down due to the product.
Exactly like that, you also have to apply backlash of people’s to roots of your soul.”Because if we put something in our soul then, we are always ready to improve that thing”.And in this case, that thing is our negative qualities for which we are receiving backlash.And if we do this, then it keeps our character from weighing down from negative qualities.
Apply mascara to the roots of eyelashes and backlash to the roots of soul.
A maximum number of the coating or bad qualities:-
Do not apply more than two coatings of mascara at one time.”Because more mascara you apply, more it causes the new coat to become a clump”.
Exactly like that always try to solve one negative quality at a time.If you try to improve everything at one time then everything becomes a clump.”And because of this, you became puzzled and due to which you cannot even solve one problem”.
Always remember the maximum number of anything.
Maximum time people generally apply mascara only to the center of their eyelid which causes an uneven look.”So always make sure to apply mascara to inner, outer, and middle lashes”.
“Exactly like that we also only improve some part of our negative quality”.For example, if someone says we are lazy and we come to the office late daily.Then we improve that thing by coming office on time.But we did not improve our whole bad quality.We still are lazy at other activities of our life like household works, or doing payments of bills on time, or going to meet someone etc.
Always do things fully not partially.
Remove mistakes with cotton swab or smile:-
While applying mascara if you get mascara on your face then allow it to dry.”Once it became dries then put a bit of moisturizer on a cotton swab and gentle spin the cotton swab on that mascara spot to remove it”.
Exactly like that if you are trying to improve your negative qualities for which you are receiving backlash.But if you’re not succeeding in improving them.Then don’t rush things.Everything takes time.Just smile and try again.”Becuase try again is like that moisturizer just put it on the cotton swab of smile and gentle spin on your negative qualities for which you are receiving backlash to remove them”.
But if you rush things to improve yourself.Then you might fail in doing that.Due to which you became sad and which leaves a stain on your character.And if we rush in removing that mascara spot without making it dry then, it will leave a stain on our face.
Cotton swab and smile is the key to remove problems.
“Comb your lashes to remove the clumps and try to do it when mascara is still wet”.This gives perfection to your eyelashes.
Exactly like that comb your qualities.So that clumps of negative qualities will never be in your character.”And always try to do this on a daily basis when things are still wet like mascara”.Don’t leave things for tomorrow, do it today.And if you do this then your character becomes perfect.
Comb eyelashes and character to remove any kind of clumps and to make them perfect.
The removal of mascara is also important.Because if you don’t remove it then, “it causes your eyelashes to become dry and due to which they fall out”.So, use eye makeup remover to remove mascara.
Exactly like that if you always and everytime get affected by the backlash of people’s then, “it might cause your happiness and peace to fall out”.So, use hard work to remove backlash of people’s.
Remove mascara and backlash.
My main motive for writing this article is that today “we became easily depressed and sad by people’s backlash”.Due to which we feel lack of inspiration for doing anything.But “if we change our perception then we can find inspiration in anything”.
“Now go and apply mascara or backlash to yourself”.
We all live in a very harsh world. In which we always struggle with the thoughts of:
What to do?
How to do?
When to do?
Why to do?
But most important before doing anything OR after doing anything, we think that the work we have done is “good or bad”. We always have that thought in our mind. This thought continuously struck in our head like “hammer on nail”.
This thought always bothers everyone.
If we gave some food to 100 beggars
We think we have done a tremendously good job.
If we run out of food and one beggar comes to whom we couldn’t give food we start thinking that we committed a sin. Feeling of bad is much more powerful than good.
So 1> 100
Why don’t we feel between good and bad? Feel both at the same time?
Why don’t we think we helped 100.So feel good about 100 but we did not help 1 beggar so minus 1
Feel good about 99 and this is what I am trying to say. In this way we feel good about 99 and feel bad for 1.
Some people may not agree with me. They think it is not our duty to feed each and every beggar.
Why we feel bad about that 1 beggar also?
And why not feel good about only 100.
Cheers to you guys!!
But I can say very confidently to you guys that after 10 days If you again wants to give away food you’re going to give it to 95 beggars only and with time this number will keep on decreasing because of this mentality
And that day is not away when you will feel why gives food to anyone. After all it cost bucks.
Okay, I am going to ask you a question:
Why we give food to beggars or why we help others
Really to help them?
No, we help them to help ourselves, to feel good.
Feeling good is not important if you want to do greater things in life. I am putting this scenario in front of you.
Just to say
If you always have “good feeling” in you then you cannot do something better than good, but if you have the feeling of a little “bad”, then we try to balance between “good and bad”
And in this effort we always do more good than bad.
And in the above example, giving food to 115 beggars or more than stopping at 100 or reducing the number.
But life is not as simple as that
Of course, not.
Some people say life is like two lanes. Stay on any lane and you’re going to reach somewhere.
But I don’t think reaching somewhere is important.
Reaching at destination is important!
Our life is also like that, there are two lane “GOOD AND BAD”. People says pick one but I states make a new path with good and bad. I am not saying definitely you will reach your destination but “Destination” is will reach you.
Some people say don’t put your legs on two boats otherwise you’re going to drown.
Our life is also just like that boat of good and both of bad, pick one otherwise you will drown. Drowning with good and bad gives pleasure throughout the process.
But how can we feel both good and bad simultaneously?.
Imagine yourself like sky. In sky there is both sunlight and cloud. “Sunlight” is like feeling good and “clouds” are like feeling bad. In sky sunlight is important but scattered clouds are also important which makes it beautiful.
Feeling good and bad both are like “parallel lines” who never intersect with each other but they always go together in the same page simultaneously. By standing between these lines you can face towards only one of them but if you stand above them you can see both the lines at the same time
To feel both “good and bad” you have to stand on bridge of “good and bad”.
Thanks for joining me!
Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton