Time Stuck

Hello!!!, everyone today we are gonna talk about time.But we are not gonna talk only about time, we are gonna talk about time stuck.After listening to this word many people are thinking about that I am gonna talk about some science fiction thing just like Hollywood movies.

No, I am just gonna talk about our brain’s thought process but on which you can definitely make a high budget Hollywood film.

Our brain is a most powerful gift that we human can receive. Due to this brain, we are today very evolved and successful.we can give today’s modern world success credit to this brain.But one of major advantage or disadvantage of this brain is it cannot stop for a second so we always have thought in our brain.Whether this may be happy thoughts or thoughts of worried or sadness.

Many people reading this article “are either worried about their future or they are thinking about their past life like what golden time was that or what dark time was that”.We always think about this thing.These thoughts always revolve around our brain.Actually today we are in “time stuck”.

What is time stuck???.

“Time stuck means we always either live in future or in past but not in present time”.

We do not care about what is going on???.We care about what is gonna happen.Or we care about what has been happened.

For example, a businessman always cares about future that how he is gonna expand his business.And if after some time if his business falls he is gonna think about how big his empire was.But he never lived in present time whether he fell scary about his future or feel sad about his past.He never really enjoyed his wealth.”He always lives life in worry or sadness.Worry about future and sadness about past”.

“The people who live like this never enjoy their life.Time stuck is like a disease but the disease can be cured by medicine or medicine can also help in feeling less pain.But in time stuck you have thoughts in your brain and these thoughts cannot just run away like pain run away when we take medicine.This always stays with you 24×7″.

There are two type of people in time stuck:-

First one is those people “who always feel scary about thinking about there future”.But people never worry about there present time.They always worry about problems that might come in future they worry about what will happen?? if this happens.They are always worried about problems which are not existing.And these people called them as ‘prudent‘.

And they have reasons for became like this.They say if we do not care about future than we will be doomed.For eg, they say if we don’t worry about water problem than our future generations are gonna fight for drops of water.

I am 100% agree with these prudent.But only worrying is not solution.No, we have to stop worrying and start saving water.But people again say if you are not gonna worry about the problem than how you solve it.

But I say worrying is not solution working on the problem is the solution.

“No worrying, only working”.

And I say why not became only 30% prudent.In these way, we also worry about future and also enjoy present time.But some people again say why to worry about future why not just live present time???.”Because if we do not care about future’s problem than after some time that future problem is goona became a present problem”.

Now let’s come to second class:-

The people who think about their past. They spend most of their time in weather appreciating their past time or criticising it but never live in present time.They never understand joy or sadness in present time.And when this time passes than they are gonna think about this time.

For eg, if we did not go to college due to the financial situation and have to do work instead of studying but our financial problems are still there.So what we say if I had gone to college my financial situation is different today.But how is that possible if you have better financial situation than you have gone to college in the first place.They always think about there past time like that and always feel sad.

“We humans never understand the value of the present time we feel sad about thinking our past life because it is our nature to think about things which are not in our hands”.

Today we are so stuck in this time stuck that if someone gave us a time machine and say do what you want to do then we either go in past time to improve our mistakes.Or go to our future to see what life we are gonna live in future but we never enjoy or work hard in present time.

We even say that I am gonna work hard from tomorrow.Not today. Not this second.Tomorrow, or we think what if we did hard work yesterday how much of my work is completed today.

So how can we break this ‘time stuck’.I say we don’t have to break time stuck. Because sometimes we take more medicine than our perception than we definitely have its side effect, but it doesn’t mean that medicines are made to kill us but medicine is made to cure us.But it is because of our mistake we have to suffer its side effects.Just like that we have use time stuck so much that we are stuck in it.

So we just have to put this time struck into our ‘time watch’ so when we need we just have to look at our watch and feel how our future is gonna be or what mistakes is not worth repeating from past time.

“I say time stuck is most beautiful gift god given to us.Because in it we have experience of our past and hopes for future”.

Powerless Superheroes

Hello!!!, everyone today we are gonna talk about the powers.Who doesn’t want power?Everyone wants power. Whether it is any kind of power physical, political, mind power etc.And what is power???.

“the ability or capacity to do something or act in a particular way”.

But that’s not what we are gonna about, we are gonna talk about superpowers.And the person who holds superpower and works for good causes are known as a superhero.I think today’s time is the best time to talk about a superhero.And how can we become like that?Most of the readers have seen any of the superhero movies in their life.But why we like superhero movie due to its breathtaking action, sexy heroines, for a huge set.

I don’t think so any of the reasons mentioned above is the reason why “we like superhero.We like a superhero because it always gives us hope.It always makes us feel special and then, after all, we all to become like a superhero.But if I say superhero is in already yourself.Everyone of us is a superhero.I know you listened to this thing thousands time before but I am gonna prove this to you”.

So just sit down and let’s talk about one by one of the superheroes and how we are like that?.Shall we

  • Superman: Clark kent an Alien, who he is the strongest man.He lifts buildings, saves people from trouble.We also have that power in ourself, first of all, he is alien.So we have to be alien-like him, to become a superhero like a superman and we are almost like alien to animals.So we can save animals in our daily life.

What happens if Superman flys blindly than buildings get destroyed, people get killed.And if we walk on the street without walking carefully than we can also kill hundred of ants, we can also destroy the home of insects.

  • Black widow: Natalia Alianovna Romanova an intelligent female spy who always try to protect S.H.I.E.L.D so what?.A normal girlfriend always spies on her boyfriend wherever he is gone.

A mother always protects her child no matter consequence just like Natasha try to protect S.H.I.E.L.D.

  • Ironman: Anthony stark a billionaire, Philanthropist, genius, playboy.

So what? we are not a billionaire but we have money, we always tried to do philanthropy.We are genius and we can also build his suit.

And I know most of the readers have 2 0r 3 girlfriends.So

  • Batwoman: an expert burglar, specialized in martial arts, hand to hand combat always robs from rich and give to poor We all have that qualities within us we became burglar if we don’t have food to eat but we always try or think to help poor people.

  • Spiderman: peter parker a teenage boy who is bitten by a radioactive spider than develop qualities like spider precognitive spider-sense, climbing on the wall.So we can also develop this quality we all have precognitive we just have to activate it.People can climb on the wall through practice.

Peter is also shown struggling with teenage problems just like every normal teenager.

These all superheroes have many qualities but there is one quality which every one of them possesses which is always doing good.And if we want to become like superheroes than we also must possess that quality.

But today we are powerless.We are a superhero without power.Because we cannot understand the meaning of power.We always take our body for granted but if we ask the blind person what superpower he wants he says the power of eyes.If we ask the deaf person what power he wants he is gonna say he wants hearing power and so on.

We always cry for things we don’t have.But there are people who want normal power as superpowers.Okay, let me ask you a question.If your any superhero than who is gonna be your biggest supervillain.Some say, Joker, some say Green Goblin, some say Magneto.

I say my biggest supervillain is ignorance.Ignorance of our power, ignorance of our quality, ignorance of not to help other people.

  • Clark Kent is also ignored about his power than his father’s memory gave him knowledge of his true power.
  • Bruce Wayne powers come to light from dark by Ra’s al Gul help ‘s and then he became Batman.

  • Oliver Queen became green arrow when the ignorance of his rich world end in the brutal jungle.

So if we look carefully than all superheroes once in their life overcome ignorance.Because ignorance kept us hide from our true power.So if you want to become like superhero than you have to overcome ignorance

And if I ask you what is gonna be your biggest superpower if you want to become any superhero.Than Some say flying, some say running fast, some say time traveling.But I want only one superhero power if you have that power than you have the power of every superhero and that power is “self-determination”.Every superhero has that.

  • Whether it is bruce banner who control himself from hulk by self determination.Or

  • Logan or Wolverine who always determined to help other despite always getting hurt by loved one.Or

  • Captain America who always self-determined to walk on the right path.

“Because by self-determination you can overcome every problem in your life.Without self-determination you are nothing”.

So if you want to become superhero then remove clouds of ignorance and let sunshine of self-determination upon you.So

“Now go and suit up”.

USERNAME: HUMAN BODY PASSWORD: *******

Hello!!!, In today’s modern world word ‘password’ is most important to us.Whether it is of social media account, bank account, of our phone or any other account.

We didn’t share these passwords, to our friends, loved ones, family etc.because we care about these passwords so much that we cannot even trust our family members with it.And you create these passwords so complicated that no one can figure out.

But what if I say you know all these passwords but you don’t ‘password’ of your body.

Yup, that’s right.Our body also has password.

Let’s assume we have a ‘username’ which is our ‘human body’ just like any other username of any account all username appear same with slightly different.But to unlock secrets of that username we must know the password.And just like that, every username has a different password.So the ‘password’ of our human body is also different for everyone.

But what is that ‘treasure‘ behind that password?I can assure you that this treasure is more expensive than whole world’s money, diamonds, gold, platinum, etc.

So lets first talk about our prize because we human first want to know about our prize than we work to gain that prize.So what is that prize or that hidden treasure in our body?It is that treasure which is gonna change your life or gonna make your life successful.

That treasure is “being emotionless“.But what is “emotionless”?.To understand this first we have to know the meaning of emotions.

a strong feeling deriving from one’s circumstances, mood, or relationships with others is called emotion.We always do things according to our emotions.In other word emotion control us.

For example:-

We feel sad, when we are upset from something or someone or we feel happy in good time.When someone does something wrong then we feel angry at them.

So what’s wrong with?.It is natural you people think.Yup, it is completely natural.

But Being in ’emotionless’ state is not feeling good, not feeling bad, not feeling scared, not feeling pride, not feeling angry or not feeling low or high.

But some people now are thinking not feeling bad is okay but why we do not feel good?.I say both good and bad feeling is equal ‘dangerously ‘ .Yup that’s right dangerously because if you have a feeling of ‘good” inside you about something then one day you are gonna feel bad when that thing is gone.

So you are thinking living like that is just like nonliving being.Just like non living being cannot feel anything we also don’t have to feel anything.No, I am not saying that ‘you have to feel nothing’ I am saying you have to be in ’emotionless state’ which is always staying in the same state no matter how happy you are or how sad you are.You cannot get angry at someone despite their mistake.And you cannot feel sometimes low or sometimes high if you meet that emotionless state.

“In the emotionless state, emotions can’t control you but you can control your emotions”.

The emotionless state is like drugs the only difference is that in drugs you feel high for some time but if you achieve emotionless stage than you achieve your ‘original truth’.

So what we have, we have username,our inside treasure but again, we don’t have a password.So what is password??.

Okay first tell me how complicated you have set your password for a bank account, social media account. You have put numbers, capital letter, small latter, symbol everything so that no one can ‘crack’ it.

So now we have to crack that password which God has created.Yup that’s gonna tough but that password is different for everyone.

  • For someone, it is easy to crack.
  • For someone, it is hard to crack.

But what is that password?That password is your “soul”.Yes, that’s right you just have to find a little of yourself.So how an account work it requires a correct username and password and if we have that we can open that account.

Our soul always travels from one place to other from inside our body.So if we put our ‘body and soul together’ than we can find that unique treasure of ‘being emotionless’.

For some people, it is easy to put your soul and body together.For some it is difficult.But how can we put our soul and body together?We can do this by “self-determination, by meditation or by doing good deeds” as I mentioned earlier it is different for everyone.

So now we have

USERNAME: HUMAN BODY

PASSWORD: SOUL

ENTER TO OPEN ;

CLICK ‘ENTER’;

PLEASE WAIT…

PLEASE WAIT…

PLEASE WAIT…

“YOU HAVE SUCCESSFULLY LOGIN TO EMOTIONLESS STATE”

Fantasy World

Hello!!!, everyone today we are gonna talk about something that everyone can relate to it.Whether it is rich or poor, intelligent or dumb, male or female.I said everyone.So let’s begin this.

People always live in two different world one is real world and other is there own fantasy world.

What is one’s fantasy world?

Fantasy world means living in our own thoughts.Generally, in these thoughts, people consider them as supreme or successful.

People say living in fantasy world destroy one‘s life.

Is it true?

I don’t think so “I say living in a fantasy world is better than living in real world”.

Some people have stopped reading this article after thinking that I live in fantasy world.

But how these people know what I am gonna write next? they assumed that I am living in my fantasies so I can say that you so-called real world living people also live in a fantasyland in your fantasy world I live in a fantasy world.

I say everyone lives in fantasyland.And living in fantasyland is better than living in real world.

Because for example, if you fantasies about living a luxurious life than you feel good just thinking about it.Then you work hard to achieve it but if you do not feel that luxurious than you cannot achieve it.

So,

Fantasies = work hard

Some people might not agree with this theory.”They say if we live in fantasies we never gonna work hard”.

I say,

How do you know?

Because you also think and live in your own fantasy.

You always have to feel about success to achieve success.

If your fat person and you want motivation to do exercise than fantasy world is for you.If your fantasies about being fit and doing all thing that you cannot do because of your belly than you exercise.

So

Fantasy = motivation.

If the kid did not think or fantasies about getting a good grade.And how he feels? when he really gets good grades and getting appreciation from people.Then he is gonna work hard to achieve that goal.

So,

Fantasy = good grade

Assume that you started a new business.You have everything good business plan, good product, trusted people, everything.

But business is not going good and you decide to close it.And one day you came home your in your pajamas. You think what if I just crack one good deal than I have few more time to increase my business these fantasies give you hope and next time you work harder, you think harder and if a little luck is with you then you definitely became successful.

But what if you live in real world and think it is not running for months then how it run next day and you close the business and your destiny.

So we can say that,

Fantasy = hope

Living in a fantasy world also give you instant relief and long-term benefit.Fantasy world is also like medicine which heals us and gives energy to us if we take proper doge but if we take in excessive amount than it became a drug and we get it addicted it.

I think,

The real world is bitter.

&

The fantasy world is sweet.

These two are sides of the coin.A coin is incomplete if it does have only one side.If your gonna toss this coin.
Sometimes you get real world.
Sometimes you get fantasy world.
But if you try to cheat and toss the coin to get a side of choice every time than you face consequences.

But living in fantasy world is not enough.Fantasy world and real world are two dots and you have to meet these dots and take fantasies from fantasy world to real world to become successful.

In end,

Work hard

&
Fantasies dark

The Dead Life Is Adventurous

Hello!!!, everyone today we are gonna talk about life and death, no that seems boring and we humans never do anything boring so why not a make cocktail of life and death which is dead life.

So what is dead life???.

“Dead life is that when you are alive outside but you are dead inside”.

There was a time when life is antonyms of the dead but in today’s modern world dead is synonyms of life.I am saying that because we live our life like that. For example, we wake up, eat breakfast, go to school, college, office, work etc come home, eat dinner, we do it our homework, office work, sleep again and repeat that schedule again day like a machine, fix the schedule and we do it.

Many people agree with me.

Right,

But sorry I do not agree with you.

I think we all live an adventurous life like any other mission impossible or James Bond movie.

Definitely, we cannot fall from a building or catch a plane with the bike.But who wants it??? if you see the world in my byscope.

Come to my world,

Fare is 10 bucks for an hour.

Sorry, bad joke.

Okay no more kidding.

Seriously, come.

For example, If will smith son Jaden Smith star in a movie called ‘racist love’ in which he loves a pretty blonde, he first tries to impress that blonde.Once blonde is impressed. Then they decide to introduce each other to there families but family rejects there love.So they try everything they can do but families did not agree with them so they both marry without the happiness of the family.But in climax after 10 years.There is a scene where both’s family are playing on the beach with two kids of 4 and 7 years old and sunset in the background and the movie end.

How beautiful love story is it. Is’nt it???.We pay hundreds of bucks to see that movie and if we ask the audience what they saw in that film they say, pure love when black hero loves a white girl.They saw bravery when they fight for there love to there family and when family rejects them they feel sad.And in the end, they feel happy when they saw that all were together having a great time. Ohhh, lovely what a ride this movie is we say this movie has every emotion.

The audience, in the end, claps for there performance, some fill with the tear of joy, some whistles we can see lots of emotion in that movie hall.But I think what the …… is going on????.

Because these audiences have also done the same thing fell in love, fight for it, feel sad when got rejected.Feel happy when everything is good.But in the end or after some time they feel their life is dead.

Why??? because we are not seeing it the way it should be seen.But on the other hand in movies director shows everything larger than life, music in the background, fighting in blood etc.But “I don’t think so he shows that thing to us, no we saw that things” because we wanted to see that but we are so hopeless that when these exact same things happen in our life we cannot see it but we can see in the movie.

Everything in the movie is mind-blowing even when heroine farts its funny but in real life, if someone farts we say what a disgrace this person to society.That’s what I am trying to say if we live more our life like we enjoy a movie than we also feel our life more alive.I think going to the office is also adventurous.

because we don’t know what might happen next.You can meet your lady on the road to the office

Or you can meet with an accident.

When we read someone autobiography we say what a life he lived.In that autobiography we see his difficulties, happiness, sadness whole life of that person and if someone says if you want to live a life of that person you can say ‘yes, yes, yes’ even though knowing difficulties of his life you want to live his life.Because “its human nature we always consider food is more good on another person plate”.

A person cannot see his difficulties, sadness, happiness and consider his life more dead.And I think there is one more reason people consider their life is dead because they always want good to happens to them they do not want difficulties and if difficulties come they cannot fight with difficulty. They try to live with it and become sad and say that line my life is ……

“But on the other hand why we like the movie because in movie character comes across every emotion and difficulties and fight with them and win”.

Assume you’re in concert and singer tells his life story that he leaves his 9 to 5 job to pursue a career in his dream of becoming a singer.Then everyone is clapping, whitling, and encouraging that singer.

we say what brave man he is.But in our life, if someone does the same thing we say what a fool he is or why another person we cannot even leave these corporate jobs to pursues our dream and say my life sucks, my life is dead.

In the end, I am gonna say life is beautiful so live to its fullest live its every emotion do what you want to do.I know your not gonna learn like that.

You know what??? we learn everything better if we say In a style or in dialogue like in the movie.So for few seconds imagine I am a superstar in my expensive suit in my Austin Martin with my super hot girlfriend hmm that feel good.

so where are we??? yup and you’re going home and I came to you and say kiddo:-

Happiness +sadness+difficultyies+winning+losing+love+hate=life

I am sure if you have great imagination than your gonna remember that equation.

Real World Meme

Hello!!! everyone, today we live in two-world one is our real world and other is a virtual world. In this article, we are gonna try to make a bridge between these worlds.

‘Memes’ after reading to this word many readers have a smile on their face but today we are not talking about memes of that virtual world.We are gonna talk about ‘memes present in our real world’.

But First of all, for few reader who does not know the meaning of meme who ‘live in a cage’ I am gonna try to explain you the meaning of meme.

By definition:- ‘A meme is an idea, behavior, or style that spreads from person to person within a culture often with the aim of conveying a particular phenomenon, theme, or meaning represented by the meme’.

I know what you all are thinking, even the people who know the word meme are also ‘scratching their head now’.After reading to this the philosophical definition.And thinking what this definition is trying to say??.

So I am gonna more clarify this thing.In today’s virtual world which is social media sites like Facebook, Twitter, Instagram.Meme just means joke simple.So,

Meme=joke.

But have you ever consider these virtual life memes are also find in real life.No, okay no problem I am gonna try to give you a new perception.

In our childhood when ice cream vendor came they use a bell to advertise themselves.

And if time period bell rings in our school which has same sound than ‘we say ice cream vendor is here and we laughs’.

That’s right.That bell is today’s world meme.Actually, “the meme is just simple word who come to our eyes so often that we feel it as unique”.

But if we talk about memes of the real world.In olden time people use “proverbs” to increase there ‘vocabulary’ or to make an article more ‘effective’ to readers.

But today people use memes to make their statement more powerful.In olden time people have a book of “idioms” now they have “pen drive” of memes.

These virtual world memes come in form of like images, videos, gifs, audio, etc.Just like the old time when jokes come in form of books, newspaper, poster etc.

You know what?? I am gonna give you one more old-time meme example.Remember there was always an uncle who chew Tobacco and spit and when we see doing these hundreds of time it became a meme.

But we cannot realize and when we ever about to spit anything we make an exact same expression of that uncle.but please don’t make that face right now.You’re not looking good.Believe me.

In olden time people make a book of jokes and earn money by selling them.Exactly same, today social media page owner make money by making a meme.In virtual world:-

Viral=sell.

In childhood, every one of us wants a joke book, so we collect money from our pocket money and go to the bookstore to buy joke book and in this way, bookstore owner earns money and also became our favorite uncle even when we don’t know him personally.

Exactly like that today we earn money, then we spend it on our internet data pack and then we go to social media sites pages where we read memes in this way administrator of that page earn money by advertisement. And we don’t even know who the administrator of that page is but we admire him very much.

But just like the virtual world the person on which these memes are made we never consider what he felt??.How humiliated he felt.

And just like that in the real world we also make fun of the person in front of him or behind his back without even thinking about him that if he came to know what he thinks??.

Laughing on the meme is not a bad thing but we have to make sure of a thing that no one sheds tears when we are laughing in any world.

Your thinking why I am using all those examples of the real-world meme of our childhood??.

Because today we cannot see real-world meme.because today we are too busy in flaunt.

Memes are always in real world whether it is funny voice of birds, to cuteness of animals, to lightning in sky to huge mountains to unstoppable wind, traffic, modern, urban jungle etc

Whenever we open social media sites and sit down to read memes we had a great time, we enjoy, we laugh but we don’t have lot of time to read a meme

So if you want to have that great time always with you then try to find memes in real world because we cannot live all the time in virtual world but we live in real world and if we try to find that memes in real life than we always have a good time with us.

In virtual world “all pieces of memes are Together framed” but in the real world, we have to tie all pieces together to see meme.

“I say the world is full of memes if you have viral eyes”.

1/2 Comparison

Hello!! everyone today we are gonna talks about the comparison.This word is a ‘nightmare’ for many people.Some people think that comparison brings out best in you.And some say it destroys you.It has both positive and negative impact.but I say if you compare truly than in end you’re the one who seems happy, confused?? So continue reading, your gonna find your answer.

What is comparison???.

a consideration or estimate of the similarities or dissimilarities between two things or people.

We human being always believe in comparison.We do a comparison in every aspect of our life.We compare ourself to everyone.Everyone means everyone.We compare ourself to male, female, non-living being, living being, alien, everyone.Some common example of comparison are:-

We compare are ourself to movie star.We say we both are of same age, we look equally, we work same hours per day.But why he makes more money than me.Why he has a more hot wife than me why he has a castle and I have a hut.

Cool, You consider this as a comparison.But that is not what comparison means.The comparison should be done in all aspect. But ‘we all only compare negative of our life to positive of other people life’.

Okay, let’s come to that example again.We say if we are both of same age then why he makes more money.But I say Age is not factored to make money.Even some kids make more money than us.Then we say we both work same hours per day than why he earns more money.He earns more money because he put a lot of money first in the movie and then he earns money.Movie making is risky business but he takes the risk.But we put less money in our business or do less work and compare our paycheck.

We compare only good things.Why don’t we compare to rest of things like he has gone to jail or he is a characterless person.On the other hand, I lived an honorable life in society.But if we again compare things we say if he goes to jail than he gets bail in hours and if we go to jail than we have to live months in jail because of this corrupt system.

I am just saying that we compare ourself to some things.But comparison means doing a comparison of everything from head to nail of foot thumb.

You cannot compare one half of coin you have to compare both if you really want a comparison.But we compare ourself not to human beings we compare ourself to animals also.
We say a leopard can run fast but I cannot run that fast.But have you ever considers god creates him to run fast so that he can catch his prey but we don’t have to.Because we have mind a that leopard doesn’t have.And with the help of that mind, we can make our own food but a leopard can’t.

We compare ourself not just to living being we compare ourself to the machine also and think how much these robots can lift the weight but I cannot lift half of that weight.But I think why you have to lift the weight you created that robot to lift weight so you do not have to.But you have a mind, you created him but robot cannot create you.

We compare ourself to not only other we compare ourself to ourself.For example, if we did not go to college due to financial problems and have to do work instead of studying but our financial problems are still there.So what we say if I had gone to college my financial situation is different today but how is that possible if you have better financial situation than you have gone to college in the first place we cannot compare ourself to the whole thing.We always compare ourself to some part of that situation.

Most common example of comparison is about grades of children among parents we think another child is better than our child.But what if another child has a sharp mind he learns things in seconds and for the same thing our child has to sit hours.But we cannot appreciate his dedication we criticize his grades.

What if that other child sits an hour to study what can he do but he cannot sit hours to study.He sat minutes and earn a good grade and we appreciate him but I think we have to also criticize him for his less dedication to work .if you want to compare fully.

We even compare ourself to ourself in thoughts we thoughts if that happens then I became that .Than how happy I am??.

But we cannot compare ourself to poor people and think I have this thing in life that these people don’t have but we always want good.That’s why we are a human being.”I think comparison occurs when we want everything when we became selfish than we compare our life to others”.
But I don’t believe in comparison.Because If we look at synonyms of comparison than we have.
Allegory, parallel, balance
But meaning of

  • Allegory: a story, poem, or picture that can be interpreted to reveal a hidden meaning, typically a moral or political one.
  • Parallel: side by side and having the same distance continuously between them.
  • Balance: an even distribution of weight enabling someone or something to remain upright and steady.

And what is the meaning of comparison.

  • a consideration or estimate of the similarities and dissimilarities between two things or people.

So after all these things what we get that synonyms of comparison does not have same meaning we cannot even compare the meaning of synonyms of comparison because each has a different meaning at the different time.So how can we compare our life, leave life we cannot even compare seconds because seconds that are gone cannot return in future.
Some say if you do comparison than you can get depressed and sad but I say if you do a proper comparison then you always come out happy.

Because Everyone and everything is unique don’t compare.Everyone has some unique qualities and everyone has some weakness.No one is perfect and if you want to do the comparison then compare in a whole way.
“Because half comparison is more dangerous than the comparison”.

BECOME CURTAIN FOR LOVED ONES

Hello!!everyone, today we are gonna talk about a piece of clothing which is there in every house. Its always there but we don’t even realise what great importance this pieces of cloth hold, we don’t even look at it and if we do we don’t even appreciate its importance. Today I am talking about ‘curtains’.

So what is a curtain??. If we go by definition than we get:-“Curtain is piece of clothing that obstacles light wind” etc

But why am I talking about curtains. It is because, in my opinion, I consider curtains as a guard which protect us from sunlight, wind, dust particle, insects etc. But although a good curtain always allows breeze, a good amount of light and so on in the room. So we can say that a curtain is that guard who protects us from harmful things and allows beneficial things to us.

Now lets come to the second point. I believe each one of you always worries about your loved ones such as your daughter, mother, son, husband, father, mother etc you always think how should you protect them from this harsh world. I would say why not become like curtains.

“So please Raise your eyes from your phone look at your curtain and try to become like him”.

Any confusion? Okay I got what you are thinking, how can we protect our loved ones by becoming curtain? Protection of your loved ones is always difficult but I think in the modern world it is more difficult than ever was. Because in medieval time you can protect them by the sword from evil society. In 1900 you can protect them with guns. So what, we have good guns in 2018. Who need guns?? we have grenades.

Today its not like some war is going on like in medieval times or in world war-time.,  currently different kind of war is going on and which is “Degradation of society”.

But how can you protect your loved ones from this war. I say again by

Becoming

Correct

You’re intelligent than me. Then why are you here ???

Okay Sorry please stay.

So by becoming curtains.

According to me, curtains have some quality and if we acquire that quality than we can also become guard like curtains.

 “STAND TALL”

Curtains are cloth that is dark enough that it cannot allow light to the room. So you have to become like that curtain, so that this harmful society cannot touch your family but the curtain is good only when curtain allows least light in and largest light out. Just like that you have to allow good quality for your loved ones and cannot allow bad quality in them.

“Deeply connected”

There is always hook on curtain on which curtains are placed these have to be deeply connected otherwise when the huge storm come curtain will fall down. Just like that, you have to be deeply connected to your roots when the storm of this brutal society come you have to stand tall to protect them.

 “Flexible”

When the wind blows fast, curtain tries everything to protect the room from wind but if the wind is strong they move on from their place and let air pass through them. Rather than insisting on their place and destroy yourself because they know they have to protect on other days also. And if they die for one day then how can they protect room for rest of the days.

Just like that, if one person in our family is not ready to live morally than we have to try our everything but after some point, you have to let that person go because you cannot waste all your life on that person. You also have the responsibility to protect other members.

 “POWER IS IN THE FIST”

Curtain always move and work with his folds if one fold is loose and one is tight than it is not gonna work properly. Just like that Our whole family has to work together Because loved ones are meant to be “Together and forever”

“Live best and prepare for worst”

In each house spare curtains are available in case one is spoiled. Exactly we always have to prepare our loved ones to become next curtain for the family.

Actually I a gonna tell you a secret, I am writing this article not just to explain the quality of curtains. No, definitely not. I wrote this article to get us realized that we can learn from everything if we want to and we don’t have to feel ashamed about that because it is our nature to learn.

“So become like a curtain”

Feeling of GOOD and BAD stays togehter

We all live in a very harsh world. In which we always struggle with the thoughts of:
What to do?
How to do?
When to do?
Why to do?
But most important before doing anything OR after doing anything, we think that the work we have done is “good or bad”. We always have that thought in our mind. This thought continuously struck in our head like “hammer on nail”.
This thought always bothers everyone.
For example
If we gave some food to 100 beggars
We think we have done a tremendously good job.
But
If we run out of food and one beggar comes to whom we couldn’t give food we start thinking that we committed a sin. Feeling of bad is much more powerful than good.

So 1> 100

Why don’t we feel between good and bad? Feel both at the same time?

Why don’t we think we helped 100.So feel good about 100 but we did not help 1 beggar so minus 1

100-1=99

Feel good about 99 and this is what I am trying to say. In this way we feel good about 99 and feel bad for 1.

Some people may not agree with me. They think it is not our duty to feed each and every beggar.

Why we feel bad about that 1 beggar also?

And why not feel good about only 100.

Cheers to you guys!!

But I can say very confidently to you guys that after 10 days If you again wants to give away food you’re going to give it to 95 beggars only and with time this number will keep on decreasing because of this mentality

80

65

42

27

3

And that day is not away when you will feel why gives food to anyone. After all it cost bucks.
Okay, I am going to ask you a question:

Why we give food to beggars or why we help others

Really to help them?

No, we help them to help ourselves, to feel good.

Feeling good is not important if you want to do greater things in life. I am putting this scenario in front of you.

Just to say

If you always have “good feeling” in you then you cannot do something better than good, but if you have the feeling of a little “bad”, then we try to balance between “good and bad”

And in this effort we always do more good than bad.

And in the above example, giving food to 115 beggars or more than stopping at 100 or reducing the number.
But life is not as simple as that

Is it??

Of course, not.

Some people say life is like two lanes. Stay on any lane and you’re going to reach somewhere.
But I don’t think reaching somewhere is important.

Reaching at destination is important!

Our life is also like that, there are two lane “GOOD AND BAD”. People says pick one but I states make a new path with good and bad. I am not saying definitely you will reach your destination but “Destination” is will reach you.

Some people say don’t put your legs on two boats otherwise you’re going to drown.

Our life is also just like that boat of good and both of bad, pick one otherwise you will drown. Drowning with good and bad gives pleasure throughout the process.

But how can we feel both good and bad simultaneously?.

Imagine yourself like sky. In sky there is both sunlight and cloud. “Sunlight” is like feeling good and “clouds” are like feeling bad. In sky sunlight is important but scattered clouds are also important which makes it beautiful.

Feeling good and bad both are like “parallel lines” who never intersect with each other but they always go together in the same page simultaneously. By standing between these lines you can face towards only one of them but if you stand above them you can see both the lines at the same time

To feel both “good and bad” you have to stand on bridge of “good and bad”.