Being Judgemental Is Bad.Really?

Hello!!! Everyone, Today we live in that world in which everything is right as well as wrong.”Everyone has different perception towards life”.

Maximum people today don’t know the thing they are doing is right or wrong, they just do it because they have to do it.

But some time ago there are only two things.Which is one is right and one is wrong.But now Nothing is right and nothing is wrong.Everything is right and everything is wrong.

In today’s world if you see something wrong than it is your fault.It is not the fault of that person who is doing wrong because according to that person he is doing right that’s why he is doing it.”Because everyone in this world does anything by considering that thing right”.

So, you cannot be judgemental in today’s world.And even no one wants to be judgemental.And if you are being judgemental than you have to face the hate of people.

But I say everyone one of us is the judgemental.No person in this whole world can claim that he/she is not judgemental.And being judgemental is not the thing to be ashamed of.But it is a quality and a good quality.Which you can show to the whole world with the feeling of proud.

But first let know the meaning of judgemental.

having or displaying an overly critical point of view.

Generally, people use word being “judgemental” in a negative way.But according to me forming an opinion is called being judgemental.Whether it is good opinion or bad opinion, both come in the definition of being judgemental.

First, let’s talk about the people who claim to be non-judgemental.According to me no one in this world is non-judgemental.Everyone has a brain and everyone has thought process due to which everyone forms an opinion about anything and everything.That opinion could be good or bad.And some people say their opinion, so some people kept their opinion inside.So by this, we can say that everyone is judgemental.Some accept that fact, so some keep lying about that.

According to me if your judgemental than it is good.But if you pretend to be non-judgemental, then it might gonna cost you someday.Let’s try to understand this by the following the example.

Assume that If your daughter brought a new dress and it is not looking good on her.But if you don’t want to be sound like judgemental.Then you say, that dress is looking good on her.

And if you say this, then you are gonna commit two mistakes.First one is you are telling a lie and another one is whenever your daughter is gonna wear that dress.She is not gonna look good and people are gonna make fun of her.

On the other hand, if you tell the truth and try to be judgemental and say to her that she is not looking good in that dress.So she might get little upset with you.But by telling truth to her, she will be saved from the world’s humiliation.

I don’t understand why people always think being judgemental as a negative remark.But according to me, we only become judgemental to the people we care about.

For example:-

If our kid makes a false excuse for not going to the school because of stomach ache then, we become judgemental and say, “you never had a stomach ache when you go to play with your friends”.

But what if your neighbour says to you that his kid has not gone to school because he has a stomach ache then, you don’t give a damn because you don’t care about the neighbour’s kid.

But on the other hand, you become judgemental at your kid.You scold him because you care about him and you know if he doesn’t go to school then, he might not become successful in his life.

But some readers might be thinking that we also being judgemental towards the stranger people on the road or towards the celebrities but, we did not care about them.

Yes definitely, we are judgemental towards the stranger people.But it is because we feel connected to them in some ways.We might not know him or nor have any relations with them before.But when we see them on the streets for the first time we feel connected to them in some ways.Whether it is because of there appearance, clothes, or their way of talking or walking.And by that, we start to care about them.

And if we talk about celebrities then we either hate them or love them.And if you have any of that feeling then you became judgemental.

Because caring about someone always does not mean that we love that person or we always wanted good for that person.Sometimes if you hate someone then also you started to care about them that what problems he is having in his life and if he is having any problem, then we became happy by thinking that he is in trouble.

Let’s try to understand this more by the following example:-

If you hate someone and if the business of that person you hate fails, then what you say?.You say I know the person like that cannot become successful in his whole life.And if you do so then you become judgemental.

We humans always want to achieve something unique or great in our life.And for that we work hard, we humans can work hard but we cannot bear a negative remark from someone.

If someone becomes judgemental about you.Then if you like that judgment then accept it, but if you don’t like it then forget it.But who are you to say to the people that don’t be judgemental.Everyone has views, sometimes it is good so sometimes it is bad.

People say that judgemental people always be judgemental.They never become happy or satisfied with us, whatever we do.But I don’t think so.According to me, if someone is being judgemental about us then, there is definitely mistake in us.
But we never see our mistake, we always see other people’s mistake.And in this case, we are also seeing other people’s mistake.Which is they are being judgemental.

For example:-

If a student gets 99 marks out of 100 in a subject.Than judgemental people say, that student is still not perfect in that subject.And they are right because that student did not get full marks.That student has done a brilliant job no doubt but still, he has not got full marks.So how can we say that student is perfect in that subject.So the judgemental people are true.

And if you don’t like people’s judgment, then why you listen to them.But in your heart you also know that they are true, that’s why you always try to satisfy them.

For example:-

If you bought a new watch and 100 people compliment you.But if one person makes a negative remark about your watch.Then you always remember that negative remark of that one person.But you are not gonna remember the compliment of that 100 people.

And if next time you again brought a new watch.And if this time 200 people compliment you, but you never get satisfied with your watch until listening to comment of that person who made a negative comment on your first watch.

“And in the process of satisfying judgemental people, we work hard due to which we achieve the things we cannot even expect of”.And in this case of that student who got 99 marks.If that student listened to judgemental people and work hard then, definitely that student is gonna get 100 marks next time.

On the other hand, if we only praise that student for getting 99 marks.Then he might become overconfident by that praise due to which he becomes lazy.And by this, that student study less, which result that student in getting low marks.

And if we look carefully then we also find that we only get affected by the judgement of the people we care about, we know or we love.

For example:-

If you are going on the road and a so-called mad person came to you and say you cannot gonna do anything in your life, you are always gonna remain a loser.So what you do? you just ignore him, right? but why you do so.”It is because you don’t know him, you don’t love him and definitely, you did not care about him”.

But on the other hand, if your family say this thing to you that you cannot gonna do anything in your life, you are always gonna remain a loser.Then you say you are always being judged by your family.And you also feel sad after listening to this but why you feel this?.You feel like this because you know your family, you love your family, you care about your family.And by this all things you have some good exception from your family.

So we can say that we hate judgement of people because we always expect good comments about us.And if someone criticises us then, we feel a victim of judgement.And if someone praises us then, we suddenly fall in love with that praise or judgement.

And this happens because of nature of human being to always want good.And if something bad happens then, we human beings cannot digest that bad thing.

But some people might not find my above example appropriate and say, how can I compare judgement of mad person to judgement of whole normal family.They further say that, how can the judgement of a mad person can be correct.

And if you say this then, you are also being judgemental about me.

And by saying above line I am being judgemental about you, by thinking that you might be judgemental about me.

So this proves that everyone is judgemental.

And according to me, no judgement is correct or incorrect.Judgement is judgement.Sometimes if you find a judgement correct, but maybe that same judgement is incorrect in eyes of someone else.And sometimes you find a judgement correct, so someone else finds it incorrect.”In the end, it is all the game of perception”.

If you want to be successful in life then, you must have the guts to listen to people’s judgment.Because if you listen to only good things about you then, you’re never gonna become successful in life.Because in order to become successful you have to improve your bad qualities.

And if you don’t listen to people’s negative judgement then, you are never gonna be able to know about your bad qualities because everyone thinks that he/she is perfect.

As I mentioned earlier being judgemental is a quality.Because when you become judgemental then, you look at the all perspective of the thing which you want to be judgemental.

But being judgemental is like a diamond, more you polished it.It has more value.Just like a diamond is extracted from a coal mine.So if you have to achieve anything in your life which is a coal mine, from there you have to extract yourself like a diamond and afterward, we have to polish ourself.And if you do this than everyone respects your judgement no matter of good or bad.

Being judgemental is good, but we always have to be judgemental at someone by putting ourself in that situation first.That what we do if we are in that situation.Because judgemental means putting a view on someone by looking at all perspective.Like in a court, the judge only make the judgement after listening to all trials, statements, and evidence.He does not make judgement after listening to one statement.

“The only bad quality associated with being judgemental is that you only become judgemental towards other people.You cannot become judgemental of yourself.If you became judgemental towards yourself”.

Then you achieve new heights in your life.Because when you become judgemental towards mistakes of your life and try to improve them then,your gonna become more successful than ever.

So, became judgemental towards yourself.So that, no one else can become judgemental towards you.

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Audio > Video

Hello!!! Everyone, today we are in the world which is making advanced significant changes every day.

And if we talk about technologies in the videos than we have IMAX, 3d, 4dx, 4d, 4k resolution and lot more advanced technologies.In short we can say that every day a new technology is coming out.

But what if I say audio is better than today’s modern world advanced video technologies.Leave, advanced video technologies I say the audio format is better than the video format.

So first let’s talk about audio.What is an audio?

sound, especially when recorded, transmitted, or reproduced.

Let’s imagine if you are listening to a song in only audio format.Then what you feel? I am gonna say what I experienced if I am listening to any song in only audio format.

While listening to that song I imagine 10 different scenarios of that song in my mind.That how the video of that song can be.

On the other hand, if I am listening to the song and watching its video.Then I am only seeing and thinking about that images which are coming in the video of that song.The period in which I am watching that song’s video my imagination power has completely stopped.This is because “my brain is also busy in watching that video with me”.

Some people say that I am saying exact same thing people say about reading the book.But if you read the book then you have to imagine a scenario or if you have good imagination than a scenario come to your mind.But only one type of scenario came to your mind while reading a book.And if you want more scenarios or images then you have to stop reading that book and have to think about it.

On the other hand, if you listen to audio than a reel of images or scenario started in your mind.You don’t have to think about scenario while listening to audio.Scenario automatically came to your mind while listening to audio.

Whereas if you watch any video then you cannot even think of one scenario or even blurred scenario.

It is because when you listen to audio your brain imagination power remains free.And also your brain automatically creates a scenario based on what have you heard through ears.It is easy for the brain cells to create an image through listening to words.

On the other hand, if you are watching a video.Then first of all your mind engages in understanding that’s what is going on in the video.In this way, your brain imagination power becomes slow due to which your brain cells find it difficult to imagine while watching videos.

This is all for if you want to increase your imagination.But if you want entertainment than, do what you like most.

But I say I like audio more even when I want entertainment.And I know you guys are thinking that I am just saying that just to justify my article.

But if you don’t believe me than gonna try to do it by yourself.What you have to do to feel like that?.You just have to wear your headphone and try to listen to any music, speech, or radio show anything you want.When you are listening to anything.You just have to try to concentrate on each and every word.If you do it then you are gonna find a slideshow of images started in your brain.And if you have that slideshow of images in your brain then “you are gonna feel every word you listen comes to alive”.

In this way, you are gonna feel more relaxed and calm because when we feel something it has maximum impact on us as compared to things which we only see.

We talked about entertainment.Now let’s came to some serious business.

If your among the person who does not remember things after reading so many times.Whether you are a student who does not remember his books or office worker who does not remember his presentation or housewife who always forgotten to buy something when go to shopping.

Then, listening to audio is really for you.

For eg:-

If you are student who finds difficulty in learning books.Then if you record your books and listen to it.Then it might be easy for you to memorize it.

You people are thinking if we learned so easily by just listening to the recorded audio of books.Then why cannot we watch videos related to our study?It might be even more easy for us to learn our books if we watch videos related to our books.

Okay, so you think by watching videos you are gonna remember things easily.But I don’t think that this is gonna happen.Why I am saying like this?.You are gonna understand this by the following example:-

We all watch movies and sometimes we watch a particular movie 3 to 4 times or even more times.But no matter how many times you watch a movie you are never gonna remember each and every word which is said in that movie.You are definitely gonna remember scenes but not every dialogue of the movie.

On the other hand, if you listen to audio talk show you are gonna remember maximum words, not an exact copy.But you remember a maximum talk of that talk show.

This is because when we watch videos our brain concentrate on the scene and try to understand what is in the background of the scene, it’s color, it’s format, it’s decoration and many things and in this way, our brain loses its focus.And by this we cannot capable of learning things while watching videos.

Whereas if you listen to audio than your brain has only one work which is memorizing the words which are playing in the audio.So your mind did not get distracted by any other background which plays in the video.Due to this, you learn things easily while listening to audio as compared to watching a video.

Let’s not also forget the part if you’re doing the whole study then you have to listen to audio 3 to 4, hour daily.But if you listen to mild audio than you don’t get any physical problem.And you feel even fresh or little tired after studies.

But if you watch video for that long then your eyesight might become weak.And also there is a chance that you have to face the problem of a headache for several times for watching video continuously for that long time on daily basis.

But people say if you can learn from audio so much.Then how come you do not learn from your teacher in school, she also teaches us while speaking and we listen to it like an audio.

This is because your teacher teaches you in a class full of distraction.Whether it is your friends or your crush.And to learn anything you have to concentrate on things which you cannot do it in your class full of distraction.

I think the great example to prove my point that audio is better than the video is blind person.if we look carefully then “we find that blind person has more memorizing power than normal people.And if we talk about creativity then we cannot even think of the creative things they do”.

Blind person memorize anything which they hear in there life.They always remember maximum things which they heard until their death.For eg, if a person speaks one time to the blind person.And then never speaks to him for years and when he meets him again after many years.That blind person is gonna recognize him just by his voice.Which he heard many years ago.

On the other hand, we normal people who can see, cannot remember person’s face just by a single meeting, leave single meeting.If we have met him several time before.But We cannot remember him if he suddenly met us after some year has passed.

This all happens due to a blind person try to remember that person by words or voice of him.Which is easy for our brain to remember.Whereas we try to remember that person by his face.Which is difficult for our brain to remember that person’s whole face.So “we can say that the things which we hear have more impact on us than the things we see”.That means audio is little better than video.

I know some readers might be thinking that I have done an unfair comparison.Because a blind person has more developed hearing sense than us.

Yes, definitely he has the more developed hearing sense.Not because he has this gift from God.But because he worked on it.And over the course of a period of time, he practices it and makes it even more perfect.

But today we normal people do not try to make our senses more perfect.We just get satisfied with what we have.We do not work harder to get more.If we try then we can also make our sense like that blind person.

Some people might be thinking that I just hate advanced technology and changes.That’s why I am supporting audio and pointing out the disadvantages of the video.

But it is not like that.I did not hate advanced technology.I just wanted to put “advantage of audio” in the spotlight.Which we have forgotten in the glamour of video.

In the end,

I am just gonna say that each and everything in life has importance.Never ignore anything or anyone’s importance.And it is also applied to both audio and video.

I think I have proved my point that audio is better than video.But just like I say in the above line everything and everyone has importance in life.

So,

CONVERT

Voices of the brain into the audio.
&
Views of the eyes into the video.

And combine them, to get the astonishing result in life.

Become Gravity

Hello!!! Everyone, today we are gonna talk about science.Science is very tricky subject some people love it.So some hate it.The people who love science then it is good for you.

But people who don’t love science let’s try to make you fall in love with science.So for those people who don’t love science let’s convert science into philosophy in this article.And the people who love science but don’t understand philosophy.Let’s give this an article a read, not for understanding philosophy but for the sake of science.

So if we are talking about science.So the people who love science say “science is in each and everything”.True, but we cannot talk about each and everything in this post.So let’s talk about one of the most important scientific thing which is “gravity”.

What is gravity?

the force that attracts a body towards the center of the earth, or towards any other physical body having mass.

So if we are gonna go through its scientific thing.Then people who don’t like science are gonna stopping reading and otherwise, also we all have read about gravity in our student life.We all have studied its advantages and disadvantages.

But one thing which is not taught in our study is that if you want to be successful in life than you have to become gravity.

Yup, gravity, so let’s talk about keynotes about gravity.And how can becoming like gravity help us in becoming successful.

  • Constant force :-

Gravity is the “constant force” which keeps the thing in place.So if you became gravity than you are the one who keeps things in constant place in your life.Which things in your life are your “emotions”.Which is anger, joy, sadness, happiness.You cannot just release this emotions at any time.You have to take control of your emotions in your hands if you want to succeed in life.

And I am not saying that you don’t have to release this emotions for your whole life.In my opinion, “you just have to let them out at right time not any time”.

For eg, if you are getting ready for your big presentation today at the office.And you came to know that your son got failed in exams and if you get angry towards him at that time.

Then you lose your focus and it might also badly affect your presentation.And let’s assume that you get angry towards your son and scolded him badly.But after some time you are definitely gonna feel guilty after all he is your son.And your presentation also gets affected by that guilt present in your mind.

On the other hand, if you get your anger under control and try to remain calm at that time.And thinks that first go to the office, give a presentation nicely, and in the evening let’s talk to son about his studies.

If you keep that thinking in the mind and go to the office.Than your definitely gonna give a nice presentation.

And If your son sees that you go to the office without scolding him.Then he might also feel guilty that he led you down by getting failed in exams.And if that thought came in his mind than he will definitely gonna study hard to get good marks.

And what if that guilty did not convince him to study hard?.Then you have a backup plan which is scolding him in the evening.And by the hangover of a cocktail of his guilt and your scolding, he is definitely gonna study hard to get good marks.

  • Formation of group :-

Gravity is the main reason for stars to come together and form a galaxy.

So by becoming like gravity, you were able to form an organization of people and with the help of that organization.You can achieve things in your life which is beyond your imagination because “real power is in an organization”.

  • Gravitational potential energy :-

Gravity has “potential energy” due to which every object has “gravitational potential energy” because of where it is situated.In easy words, every object has energy because it is located in gravity.So with help of this energy when the roller coaster is started they directly came to the ground without any further requirement of energy.

So if we can provide that gravitational potential energy to our loved ones.And that gravitational potential energy for our loved ones is our “good qualities”. If we can provide them our good qualities because they are in our gravitational field.So they also became successful in life and by seeing this we have the feeling of satisfaction and happiness.”Because we always worry about our family more than ourself”.

  • Atmosphere :-

Gravity helps the earth in retains its atmosphere.Just like that if you if you have some qualities in you.Then you can become like gravity and with the help of that, you can choose people who you want to have in your life or in your atmosphere.

  • Muscle growth :-

Gravity helps our body in calcium production and muscle growth.So if we became like gravity than we were also able to develop good qualities in ourself.Just like that a force of gravity help in our body growth.So if we have a force in ourself to become successful than this force helps us in building good qualities and character.

Just like the light has darkness, sunshine has clouds, positive has negative, being gravity also has disadvantages.

  • Gravity force keeps us on earth by these we cannot be able to fly.Just like that if you have the gravity of bad habits than it stops you from flying in the sky of happiness and success.

  • Just like the earth has gravitation force moon and sun also have gravitation force.Which has an effect on earth due to which it causes tides in the ocean on a full moon.Because they have much stronger gravitational force than earth.Just like that if we do not have the strong gravitational force of good qualities in us.Then we might have tides of what to do? or what not do in our life? And if those tides occur in life than we were never gonna get successful in life.

And if we have the weaker gravitational force of good qualities in us.Then we might get attracted to bad things in our lives and started walking on the wrong path.

  • If we fall than we get hurt this happens because of gravity.So if you have the gravity of bad things in you.Then it stops you from becoming successful and causes you to fall and get hurts.

  • Gravity of earth attracts asteroids which causes harms to earth.So if you have strong gravity in yourself and become successful.Then you might attract a lot of people who wanted to harm you and your family.

  • Just like you have the gravity of qualities.Other people also have that gravity and if they have strong gravity than you.Then they might attract things from you which you love.

Everything has both advantages and disadvantages.It is up to us want we take from that thing.But in the end, we can say that gravity has more advantages than disadvantages.

So after all this, we have another definition of gravity which is:-

The ( force ) which is our good qualities that attracts a ( body ) which is success towards, the ( center of the earth ) which is us, or towards ( any other physical body having mass ) which is anything like happiness, joy etc.

After reading this article I think the people who hate science started thinking that science is not so bad after all.And the people who love science but don’t understand philosophy also came to know a little bit about philosophy.

So,

Become Gravity.

Or

Become loser.

Ordinary Masterpiece

Hello!!! Everyone, In this modern world of fast running lives.We all hate our life.We all say our life does not have anything good or special.Our life is dead, we curse our life no matter how good it is.We never get satisfied with our life.We always wanted more.

Then why we always think like that and continues to live our life like that? It is because, in the corner of our heart, we all know that one day we are gonna achieve something big in our life.The whole world is gonna know our name.But what is that thing we all wanted to do? It is different for everyone.But if in one word I have to say that thing, than I am gonna say that thing is making a “masterpiece” in our life.

So what is a masterpiece?

a work of outstanding artistry, skill, or workmanship.

Generally, a masterpiece is a word which is used for an artist’s outstanding art or work.And no matter what type of artist he is whether he is a painter, singer, filmmaker, actor, writer, statue maker etc.But how can normal people like us who do corporate jobs, business, a housewife, or a student how can we make our masterpiece?

No matter what definition say.According to me, a masterpiece is that when we do something which is the finest of our work in our whole life.And before doing that work we cannot even think of doing it and after doing that we can only think how the hell did I complete this work?

Nowadays everything is show off.If a filmmaker makes a mind-blowing movie.Then everyone says that this is his masterpiece.If painter paint extraordinary painting than that painting become his masterpiece, if the actor does brilliant acting in a movie than that movie is known as a masterpiece of that actor, if a writer had written a fantastic novel than it becomes his masterpiece.This all people get name, fame, money for there masterpiece.In short, they all become legends for there masterpiece.

But we never look at an ordinary masterpiece.Yes, correct ordinary masterpiece.But masterpiece is extraordinary work than you people are thinking why I am saying an ordinary masterpiece.So please continue reading to find out what is an ordinary masterpiece?

We all live our lives very hard we all fight with different problems everyday sometimes we defeat them so sometimes they defeat us but we are always in a war zone.We always try to do our best in our life.But how can we make that masterpiece that I am talking about?.So let’s try to make an ordinary masterpiece.

If you wanted to make a masterpiece than you have to aim for something unachievable.

For eg, if your student than what is your masterpiece is gonna be? your masterpiece is gonna be learning all books, alternative books, everything about your course but can you do that.No, you can achieve good marks but you cannot learn every book of your course.But in process of making that masterpiece which is learning all books.Then you definitely get the first rank in your school.Which is, in the end, becomes your masterpiece.

But you people say our masterpiece is that learning all books than how come the first rank in the school, in the end, becomes our masterpiece.It is because the first rank in the school for a student is also not less than a masterpiece.

So,

In the process of making a masterpiece that process itself becomes a masterpiece.

Now consider if your housewife than what is gonna be your masterpiece? I say your masterpiece is gonna be good taking caring of your family.But if your son get addicted to drugs and he takes drugs on a daily basis and you do everything to get rid him of his addiction.And after some time, with the help of medicine and your hard work he only takes drugs sometime like once in a month.

so people say that you are not a good housewife because you didn’t even get rid of drugs from your son.But I say you created your masterpiece because you have converted your son’s daily addiction into sometime and might be in future your gonna completely make him clean.

So,

If we think of achieving unusual and unique masterpiece but if we cannot achieve it.But what we have achieved it is also great as we compared it to rather achieving small and usual masterpiece.

Now consider If you’re in corporate jobs for years than your masterpiece is gonna be getting always promotion and your getting it.But you’re not satisfied with your job.Then you leave the job and stared a startup which has less earning than your job.Then people say you’re an idiot or loser for staring that stupid startup.But according to me, that startup is your masterpiece.Because you are feeling satisfied with it and that’s what matters.

So,

A masterpiece cannot meant for people it is meant for us that how happy or satisfies we are with our masterpiece.

Masterpiece always does not have to be in the physical form.For eg, if the person who always have war in his head.If he ever achieved peace than that peace is gonna be that person masterpiece.

So,

A masterpiece can be in any form it does not have to be seen by eyes.Masterpiece is the thing which we have to feel.

Sometime masterpiece is ordinary for other peoples but the person which masterpiece is that he always feel special for that.For eg, a person who is paralyzed his masterpiece is gonna be moving his fingers which normal people do every second without even realizing that how lucky they are.

So,

Masterpiece may be ordinary to other peoples but the person which masterpiece is that he always special and proud about that.

You people are thinking why I am giving so much stress on making a masterpiece.That is because everything has two sides but masterpiece has only one side which is a good side. Because if you capture your masterpiece then it is good for you not only for that time but for your whole life.Because if something difficult comes in your path anytime in your life than you think if I achieved that masterpiece than how can I am not gonna solve this problem.

So,

Masterpiece = strength

But what if we did not achieve that masterpiece.Then we try our best to make that masterpiece.

So,

Masterpiece = inspiration

Some people might think I just changed word “aim” to a “masterpiece” and write this post.But that is not true.We set aim which we can achieve.But masterpiece is that thing we cannot even imagine of achieving or even making it our aim.But with our hard work and passion, we can achieve it or become close to achieving it.

So we talked a lot of things about masterpiece but what if I say your itself a masterpiece.I said that line it is because we all are unique in ourself, no one is like any of us.We just have to dig that masterpiece which is buried inside us.And put it in the frame and show it to the world.

So after all these, in the end, we get,

“Ordinary masterpiece is for everyone no matter who you are whether you are poor or rich, male or female, kid or adult.The process of making an ordinary masterpiece is also so great that itself process becomes a masterpiece.This ordinary masterpiece always becomes good if you think of great.This masterpiece is not to show off to others it is for our self-satisfaction and happiness.It is not always necessary to see this ordinary masterpiece sometime we only feel about it.This is not for others it is for yourself.This ordinary masterpiece gives us strength and inspiration in our life to do hard work in order to make a masterpiece of a lifetime”.

So now get up and make your own masterpiece.

Peace Is Dangerous

Hello!!!, everyone today we are gonna talk about peace but with a different perception.We living being is always struggling to find peace we do anything to achieve peace.We try to find peace in everything.First, we think that peace is in good grades during our school life, so we study very hard to achieve that peace but we cannot find it there so we move on.

Then we think peace is in money during our professional life so we run after that peace but we cannot even achieve it there.

Then we think peace is in life partner so we search for them.And when we became older we try to find peace in charity, prayers or worshipping God.

In this whole process we really never achieved peace so we think after death we are gonna achieve peace.So what is that peace we searching for it everywhere? From our birth to death.

a state or period in which there is no war or a war has ended.

So can we ever achieve that state when there is no war?I don’t think so, because if we ever achieve that.Then we stop searching for peace everywhere and try to live with it.

There is always war is going on in our head.And it is also that war in which we think peace is in money, study, loved one or in god.

I say peace is in everything if we really wanted.But today we are not talking about how to attain that peace I am talking about peace is dangerous.

Yup, you’re thinking what I am trying to say?.

I am just trying to say that peace is dangerous because in order to achieve that peace we struggle our whole life, sometimes we do that, so sometimes we do that in hope to achieve peace.

We cannot stop running in our life in order to achieve that.But you people say we never run after peace we run after grades, money, loved ones, luxury, wealth etc.

Yup, exactly why you run after this things?.Because you feel peace when you achieve these things.You don’t even know about it.But, in the end, we all are struggling to find peace whether you believe it or not.

For example, you always try to make more bucks than your earning today.But why are you trying to make more money? it is because you feel that I am gonna in peace state when I have a lot of money.But you never achieve it even when you have a lot of money.So you move on and try to find peace somewhere else.

You people are thinking that it is an exact same like finding the happiness I just changed the word from happiness to peace.No, we can find happiness because happiness is for short span and we also achieve that but after some, it fades away whereas if you achieve that peace than it stays with you.

And let’s again assume that you have achieved that peace and if you don’t know anything about that peace first, then it might ruin your mind.

You are thinking what nonsense I am speaking? but first just let me hear out.

Your brain always struggle with the war of what is wrong? and what is right?.And suddenly that war which is going in your head stops.what you feel when suddenly a thing stops which you are so connected with it from your birth ends.And your brain feels free and light.Then it might again send you to the wrong direction even when you have that achieved that peace now you can’t deal with it.

And let again assume that we have achieved that peace, we get used to it.Then again one thought come in our mind and it completely destroys our peace and that thought is what if one day our peace is destroyed?

People say if you achieve that state of mind where the war ends.Then how can war again start over only on one thought?But the war has ended but our brain did never stop functioning.We always have thoughts in our brain.When your in that peace then you love that peace more than anything else in your life and we might also have fear of losing that peace.Due to this fear, our peace of mind ended.

I think peace is that weapon which helps us from this harsh world.If we use that weapon correctly than we can acquire the whole world. But if we don’t know how to use that weapon than we can even kill ourself.

Peace is like medicine just like medicine only effect on when we take proper doge.If we take more than doge then it has a side-effect on our body.But it doesn’t mean medicine is meant to harm us.It is made to cure us but because of our stupidity, we have to suffer from its side effects.Just like that peace is dangerous when you don’t use it properly but if you use it in the right way then you never wanted to leave that peace.

Construction & destruction is in peace take what you to want.

Be Negative

Hello!!!, everyone today we are gonna talk about peoples.In my opinion, peoples are of two types one is a “positive person” and other is a “negative person”.Other categories in which you classified humans can be divided into these two types.

Generally, people say if you’re positive person then you can conquer the world.But today let’s try to see the world with different perception.

But I think if you want to be successful in today’s modern world than you have to be negative.Yup, you read that correctly.So first of all, let’s talk about what is positive people? and negative people?

Generally, people say,

The person who always keeps a good attitude towards life is known as positive people.Like if something is not happened according to them in their life then they say if it does not happen then it does not happen for good we might don’t realize it today.But someday we will.These people always find good things even in bad things.

But who is negative person?

A negative person is a person who always keeps thinking negative.He thinks that he never gonna achieve anything in his life.He always thinks that whatever he love is gonna destroy nothing good will happen in his life.These people always find bad things even in good things.

For example, if a kid who keeps a positive attitude toward life cannot solve a math problem one day and he gets really tired of that problem.”But if he keeps a positive attitude that tomorrow is gonna be a different day”.And leave study for that day.And on next day with the help fresh mind, he easily solved that problem.

On the other hand, if that kid is a negative person and he gets really tired of that maths problem and wants to have a break for that day.Then he thinks that he cannot solve that problem today.So how tomorrow can be different?.So he continues to do work hard.And by hard work he solved that problem that day.

Some people say what if that negative kid think that he is never gonna solve that problem? And skip that problem.That might also happen but if he is dedicated to his study than he is not gonna run away from his study.And try to solve that problem because he is a negative thinking kid, not a lazy kid.

But on other hand that positive kid wastes that day by thinking that tomorrow is gonna be a different day.Whereas that negative kid solves that problem that day with hard work.

Positive people always live in hope that next second, next day, next month, next year is gonna be great.Whereas negative person thinks that nothing good is gonna happen.And by these thoughts negative person do hard work and make next second, next day, next month, next year great.

Let’s take another example:-

If we are planning to go on a road trip.A positive person thinks that everything is gonna be alright.If a thought of tire puncture come to his mind than he neglects that thought by thinking that everything is gonna be alright.

But if a negative person has planned to go on a road trip than if that thought of tire puncture comes to his mind than his gonna double check tire and might carry an extra spare.

And if really tire got punctured in the middle of the road with your family than a negative person has that spare tire.

But positive person again thinks that everything is gonna be alright.

But some people say that negative person might cancel that road trip because of that thought of tire punctured.Yup he is gonna cancel that road trip if he is a coward person, not because of a negative person.

A positive person always thinks of today, tomorrow, or the day after tomorrow.But on the other hand.Negative person thinks of past week, current week, and upcoming week.He always prepares for anything.

For eg:-

A positive person saves some money and says if any financial problem is gonna come.Then we have some money and gonna figure out that problem solution when that problem comes.

On the other hand, a negative person always prepares for worst he saves money for 10 different problems.And if more than one problem comes he easily solves that problems with that big savings.Whereas positive person does not have any options left except thinking that everything is gonna be alright.But only positive thinking cannot gonna solve that problem.

According to me if a positive person prepares for bad.So negative person prepare for worst and we can say that by above example this preparation of negative person always became fruitful.

But being a negative person also have disadvantage you never have mental stability.You always have to work hard physically and mentally both.

I am not saying that become a negative person.But in my opinion, negative person is more hardworking in nature.The whole world lay stress on becoming a positive person than who I am? to say that be a negative person.

But according to me,

A positive person walks on the flower bed to achieve their goal.

On the other hand, a negative person has to walk on the road of cactus to achieve a goal and if he walked down on that road he can achieve even bigger goals even than he set for himself.

After reading this article many people have made their mind that I am a negative person and trying to promote my type of peoples and trying to partial towards positive people.But first of all, let me clear this I am not a positive person nor negative I am just a person who is trying to see the world with the different perception.In other words, you can say that I am trying to look at the positive side of negative people.

I am not saying that negative peoples are better than positive people or positive people is better than negative people.According to me positive and negative attitude both are the way of perception the way how we see things?.

I am just trying to explore all sides of a negative person.Because we humans always look at one side of coin.we always say that being the negative person has a disadvantage.And always lay stress on being a positive person.But if we change our perception than we see,

Negative in a positive attitude.

&

Positive in a negative attitude.

A Song Cannot Bound In Lyrics

Hello!!!, everyone today we are gonna talk about a drug.A drug which is legal and everyone has addicted to it and that drug is a song.

A song is that art form which gives us humans so joy that we cannot express in words.After a long harsh day in this brutal urban jungle, I just wanted to wear my headphone and listen to songs and after listening to the 3-4 song all my fatigue, sadness, anger just washes out.I don’t think even a massage can give me that.

Many people also have that habit.There are many types of music genre.Some people listen to Hip-hop music, whereas some people listen to Rock music, so some people listen to Country music and many more.All different genre of music is great.The choice of music is depend upon the taste of listeners.Most of the people listen to the songs of there language.

But I like the songs of the language I don’t know.My favorite language is my mother tongue.Despite that I like songs of language that I don’t undertsand.I don’t know why I am like this? whether I suffered a head injury when I am a kid? I really don’t know and when I share my playlist with my family, friends, cousins.They all think that I am mad? I am really mad.Am I?.

Yes maybe, I am a mad but my choice of music doesn’t make me.And over these course of years, I find the answer to this quest.

  • I think I really enjoy these songs is because “in these songs I don’t understand lyrics so I don’t have to concentrate or I don’t even try to understand lyrics.So I just sit down and enjoy the song”.Whereas on the other hand if I listen to the song of my language than I concentrate on lyrics and always try to become critic that these lyrics are bad or that lyrics are not correct.
  • Actually, I don’t like a song I love music of that song.If you love music than you don’t have to understand lyrics of the song you’re just are gonna feel lost in that music.

  • When I don’t understand the lyrics of the song than I watch the video very carefully and try to understand the lyrics of the song by that video.And by doing that I always feel song fresh and new every time.

  • The only thing in song in which you get bored is the lyrics of the song.If you listen to the song too much then you learned the lyrics of the song and after some time you fed up with that song. But if you don’t know lyrics than you always find that song new.
  • When I don’t understand lyrics of the song than I always find that song of sound sweet.Whether it is of Pop, R&B, Pop-rock, Funk or any other music genre which is of any language.
  • When I listen to the song which I don’t understand than it also increases my imagination power because when I don’t understand lyrics than I try to imagine what does it mean by watching a video that what is going on? so it also broadens up my mind.

I know some people among you are thinking that I am just writing all these points to make this article.But if you don’t believe me than just sit down wear your headphone take any language song of the world that you don’t know and listen to it.In the first time you don’t like it but if you listen 3to4 time then you will get addicted to it.And then you have a whole upgraded playlist.

And nowadays it is easy for everyone to stream music of any country through so many music platforms like Spotify, Apple music, Amazon music, Google play music and many more.

But today I think people are also started listing the song in another language that’s why despite being a Spanish song Despacito has most watched Youtube video.Actually, 2017 is the year in which people increase there playlist from there regional language song to whole world language song.

Music is that viral disease who catches everyone who came in contact with it no matter what country you belong, no matter what religion, culture, the language you follow.Music always bounds everyone.if there is music playing you don’t even know which language song is it and people are dancing to it than after 5 seconds you also wanted to dance and after 10 seconds your leg started shaking and after 15 second your whole body started dancing.

So we say can that songs are like drugs no matter what drug you take you always get high just like that no matter which language song you listen you always feel relaxed, calm, and happy.

Lyrics are the words that maybe none-understandable but music is the art which we can feel.