Being Judgemental Is Bad.Really?

Hello!!! Everyone, Today we live in that world in which everything is right as well as wrong.”Everyone has different perception towards life”.

Maximum people today don’t know the thing they are doing is right or wrong, they just do it because they have to do it.

But some time ago there are only two things.Which is one is right and one is wrong.But now Nothing is right and nothing is wrong.Everything is right and everything is wrong.

In today’s world if you see something wrong than it is your fault.It is not the fault of that person who is doing wrong because according to that person he is doing right that’s why he is doing it.”Because everyone in this world does anything by considering that thing right”.

So, you cannot be judgemental in today’s world.And even no one wants to be judgemental.And if you are being judgemental than you have to face the hate of people.

But I say everyone one of us is the judgemental.No person in this whole world can claim that he/she is not judgemental.And being judgemental is not the thing to be ashamed of.But it is a quality and a good quality.Which you can show to the whole world with the feeling of proud.

But first let know the meaning of judgemental.

having or displaying an overly critical point of view.

Generally, people use word being “judgemental” in a negative way.But according to me forming an opinion is called being judgemental.Whether it is good opinion or bad opinion, both come in the definition of being judgemental.

First, let’s talk about the people who claim to be non-judgemental.According to me no one in this world is non-judgemental.Everyone has a brain and everyone has thought process due to which everyone forms an opinion about anything and everything.That opinion could be good or bad.And some people say their opinion, so some people kept their opinion inside.So by this, we can say that everyone is judgemental.Some accept that fact, so some keep lying about that.

According to me if your judgemental than it is good.But if you pretend to be non-judgemental, then it might gonna cost you someday.Let’s try to understand this by the following the example.

Assume that If your daughter brought a new dress and it is not looking good on her.But if you don’t want to be sound like judgemental.Then you say, that dress is looking good on her.

And if you say this, then you are gonna commit two mistakes.First one is you are telling a lie and another one is whenever your daughter is gonna wear that dress.She is not gonna look good and people are gonna make fun of her.

On the other hand, if you tell the truth and try to be judgemental and say to her that she is not looking good in that dress.So she might get little upset with you.But by telling truth to her, she will be saved from the world’s humiliation.

I don’t understand why people always think being judgemental as a negative remark.But according to me, we only become judgemental to the people we care about.

For example:-

If our kid makes a false excuse for not going to the school because of stomach ache then, we become judgemental and say, “you never had a stomach ache when you go to play with your friends”.

But what if your neighbour says to you that his kid has not gone to school because he has a stomach ache then, you don’t give a damn because you don’t care about the neighbour’s kid.

But on the other hand, you become judgemental at your kid.You scold him because you care about him and you know if he doesn’t go to school then, he might not become successful in his life.

But some readers might be thinking that we also being judgemental towards the stranger people on the road or towards the celebrities but, we did not care about them.

Yes definitely, we are judgemental towards the stranger people.But it is because we feel connected to them in some ways.We might not know him or nor have any relations with them before.But when we see them on the streets for the first time we feel connected to them in some ways.Whether it is because of there appearance, clothes, or their way of talking or walking.And by that, we start to care about them.

And if we talk about celebrities then we either hate them or love them.And if you have any of that feeling then you became judgemental.

Because caring about someone always does not mean that we love that person or we always wanted good for that person.Sometimes if you hate someone then also you started to care about them that what problems he is having in his life and if he is having any problem, then we became happy by thinking that he is in trouble.

Let’s try to understand this more by the following example:-

If you hate someone and if the business of that person you hate fails, then what you say?.You say I know the person like that cannot become successful in his whole life.And if you do so then you become judgemental.

We humans always want to achieve something unique or great in our life.And for that we work hard, we humans can work hard but we cannot bear a negative remark from someone.

If someone becomes judgemental about you.Then if you like that judgment then accept it, but if you don’t like it then forget it.But who are you to say to the people that don’t be judgemental.Everyone has views, sometimes it is good so sometimes it is bad.

People say that judgemental people always be judgemental.They never become happy or satisfied with us, whatever we do.But I don’t think so.According to me, if someone is being judgemental about us then, there is definitely mistake in us.
But we never see our mistake, we always see other people’s mistake.And in this case, we are also seeing other people’s mistake.Which is they are being judgemental.

For example:-

If a student gets 99 marks out of 100 in a subject.Than judgemental people say, that student is still not perfect in that subject.And they are right because that student did not get full marks.That student has done a brilliant job no doubt but still, he has not got full marks.So how can we say that student is perfect in that subject.So the judgemental people are true.

And if you don’t like people’s judgment, then why you listen to them.But in your heart you also know that they are true, that’s why you always try to satisfy them.

For example:-

If you bought a new watch and 100 people compliment you.But if one person makes a negative remark about your watch.Then you always remember that negative remark of that one person.But you are not gonna remember the compliment of that 100 people.

And if next time you again brought a new watch.And if this time 200 people compliment you, but you never get satisfied with your watch until listening to comment of that person who made a negative comment on your first watch.

“And in the process of satisfying judgemental people, we work hard due to which we achieve the things we cannot even expect of”.And in this case of that student who got 99 marks.If that student listened to judgemental people and work hard then, definitely that student is gonna get 100 marks next time.

On the other hand, if we only praise that student for getting 99 marks.Then he might become overconfident by that praise due to which he becomes lazy.And by this, that student study less, which result that student in getting low marks.

And if we look carefully then we also find that we only get affected by the judgement of the people we care about, we know or we love.

For example:-

If you are going on the road and a so-called mad person came to you and say you cannot gonna do anything in your life, you are always gonna remain a loser.So what you do? you just ignore him, right? but why you do so.”It is because you don’t know him, you don’t love him and definitely, you did not care about him”.

But on the other hand, if your family say this thing to you that you cannot gonna do anything in your life, you are always gonna remain a loser.Then you say you are always being judged by your family.And you also feel sad after listening to this but why you feel this?.You feel like this because you know your family, you love your family, you care about your family.And by this all things you have some good exception from your family.

So we can say that we hate judgement of people because we always expect good comments about us.And if someone criticises us then, we feel a victim of judgement.And if someone praises us then, we suddenly fall in love with that praise or judgement.

And this happens because of nature of human being to always want good.And if something bad happens then, we human beings cannot digest that bad thing.

But some people might not find my above example appropriate and say, how can I compare judgement of mad person to judgement of whole normal family.They further say that, how can the judgement of a mad person can be correct.

And if you say this then, you are also being judgemental about me.

And by saying above line I am being judgemental about you, by thinking that you might be judgemental about me.

So this proves that everyone is judgemental.

And according to me, no judgement is correct or incorrect.Judgement is judgement.Sometimes if you find a judgement correct, but maybe that same judgement is incorrect in eyes of someone else.And sometimes you find a judgement correct, so someone else finds it incorrect.”In the end, it is all the game of perception”.

If you want to be successful in life then, you must have the guts to listen to people’s judgment.Because if you listen to only good things about you then, you’re never gonna become successful in life.Because in order to become successful you have to improve your bad qualities.

And if you don’t listen to people’s negative judgement then, you are never gonna be able to know about your bad qualities because everyone thinks that he/she is perfect.

As I mentioned earlier being judgemental is a quality.Because when you become judgemental then, you look at the all perspective of the thing which you want to be judgemental.

But being judgemental is like a diamond, more you polished it.It has more value.Just like a diamond is extracted from a coal mine.So if you have to achieve anything in your life which is a coal mine, from there you have to extract yourself like a diamond and afterward, we have to polish ourself.And if you do this than everyone respects your judgement no matter of good or bad.

Being judgemental is good, but we always have to be judgemental at someone by putting ourself in that situation first.That what we do if we are in that situation.Because judgemental means putting a view on someone by looking at all perspective.Like in a court, the judge only make the judgement after listening to all trials, statements, and evidence.He does not make judgement after listening to one statement.

“The only bad quality associated with being judgemental is that you only become judgemental towards other people.You cannot become judgemental of yourself.If you became judgemental towards yourself”.

Then you achieve new heights in your life.Because when you become judgemental towards mistakes of your life and try to improve them then,your gonna become more successful than ever.

So, became judgemental towards yourself.So that, no one else can become judgemental towards you.

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Become Gravity

Hello!!! Everyone, today we are gonna talk about science.Science is very tricky subject some people love it.So some hate it.The people who love science then it is good for you.

But people who don’t love science let’s try to make you fall in love with science.So for those people who don’t love science let’s convert science into philosophy in this article.And the people who love science but don’t understand philosophy.Let’s give this an article a read, not for understanding philosophy but for the sake of science.

So if we are talking about science.So the people who love science say “science is in each and everything”.True, but we cannot talk about each and everything in this post.So let’s talk about one of the most important scientific thing which is “gravity”.

What is gravity?

the force that attracts a body towards the center of the earth, or towards any other physical body having mass.

So if we are gonna go through its scientific thing.Then people who don’t like science are gonna stopping reading and otherwise, also we all have read about gravity in our student life.We all have studied its advantages and disadvantages.

But one thing which is not taught in our study is that if you want to be successful in life than you have to become gravity.

Yup, gravity, so let’s talk about keynotes about gravity.And how can becoming like gravity help us in becoming successful.

  • Constant force :-

Gravity is the “constant force” which keeps the thing in place.So if you became gravity than you are the one who keeps things in constant place in your life.Which things in your life are your “emotions”.Which is anger, joy, sadness, happiness.You cannot just release this emotions at any time.You have to take control of your emotions in your hands if you want to succeed in life.

And I am not saying that you don’t have to release this emotions for your whole life.In my opinion, “you just have to let them out at right time not any time”.

For eg, if you are getting ready for your big presentation today at the office.And you came to know that your son got failed in exams and if you get angry towards him at that time.

Then you lose your focus and it might also badly affect your presentation.And let’s assume that you get angry towards your son and scolded him badly.But after some time you are definitely gonna feel guilty after all he is your son.And your presentation also gets affected by that guilt present in your mind.

On the other hand, if you get your anger under control and try to remain calm at that time.And thinks that first go to the office, give a presentation nicely, and in the evening let’s talk to son about his studies.

If you keep that thinking in the mind and go to the office.Than your definitely gonna give a nice presentation.

And If your son sees that you go to the office without scolding him.Then he might also feel guilty that he led you down by getting failed in exams.And if that thought came in his mind than he will definitely gonna study hard to get good marks.

And what if that guilty did not convince him to study hard?.Then you have a backup plan which is scolding him in the evening.And by the hangover of a cocktail of his guilt and your scolding, he is definitely gonna study hard to get good marks.

  • Formation of group :-

Gravity is the main reason for stars to come together and form a galaxy.

So by becoming like gravity, you were able to form an organization of people and with the help of that organization.You can achieve things in your life which is beyond your imagination because “real power is in an organization”.

  • Gravitational potential energy :-

Gravity has “potential energy” due to which every object has “gravitational potential energy” because of where it is situated.In easy words, every object has energy because it is located in gravity.So with help of this energy when the roller coaster is started they directly came to the ground without any further requirement of energy.

So if we can provide that gravitational potential energy to our loved ones.And that gravitational potential energy for our loved ones is our “good qualities”. If we can provide them our good qualities because they are in our gravitational field.So they also became successful in life and by seeing this we have the feeling of satisfaction and happiness.”Because we always worry about our family more than ourself”.

  • Atmosphere :-

Gravity helps the earth in retains its atmosphere.Just like that if you if you have some qualities in you.Then you can become like gravity and with the help of that, you can choose people who you want to have in your life or in your atmosphere.

  • Muscle growth :-

Gravity helps our body in calcium production and muscle growth.So if we became like gravity than we were also able to develop good qualities in ourself.Just like that a force of gravity help in our body growth.So if we have a force in ourself to become successful than this force helps us in building good qualities and character.

Just like the light has darkness, sunshine has clouds, positive has negative, being gravity also has disadvantages.

  • Gravity force keeps us on earth by these we cannot be able to fly.Just like that if you have the gravity of bad habits than it stops you from flying in the sky of happiness and success.

  • Just like the earth has gravitation force moon and sun also have gravitation force.Which has an effect on earth due to which it causes tides in the ocean on a full moon.Because they have much stronger gravitational force than earth.Just like that if we do not have the strong gravitational force of good qualities in us.Then we might have tides of what to do? or what not do in our life? And if those tides occur in life than we were never gonna get successful in life.

And if we have the weaker gravitational force of good qualities in us.Then we might get attracted to bad things in our lives and started walking on the wrong path.

  • If we fall than we get hurt this happens because of gravity.So if you have the gravity of bad things in you.Then it stops you from becoming successful and causes you to fall and get hurts.

  • Gravity of earth attracts asteroids which causes harms to earth.So if you have strong gravity in yourself and become successful.Then you might attract a lot of people who wanted to harm you and your family.

  • Just like you have the gravity of qualities.Other people also have that gravity and if they have strong gravity than you.Then they might attract things from you which you love.

Everything has both advantages and disadvantages.It is up to us want we take from that thing.But in the end, we can say that gravity has more advantages than disadvantages.

So after all this, we have another definition of gravity which is:-

The ( force ) which is our good qualities that attracts a ( body ) which is success towards, the ( center of the earth ) which is us, or towards ( any other physical body having mass ) which is anything like happiness, joy etc.

After reading this article I think the people who hate science started thinking that science is not so bad after all.And the people who love science but don’t understand philosophy also came to know a little bit about philosophy.

So,

Become Gravity.

Or

Become loser.

Peace Is Dangerous

Hello!!!, everyone today we are gonna talk about peace but with a different perception.We living being is always struggling to find peace we do anything to achieve peace.We try to find peace in everything.First, we think that peace is in good grades during our school life, so we study very hard to achieve that peace but we cannot find it there so we move on.

Then we think peace is in money during our professional life so we run after that peace but we cannot even achieve it there.

Then we think peace is in life partner so we search for them.And when we became older we try to find peace in charity, prayers or worshipping God.

In this whole process we really never achieved peace so we think after death we are gonna achieve peace.So what is that peace we searching for it everywhere? From our birth to death.

a state or period in which there is no war or a war has ended.

So can we ever achieve that state when there is no war?I don’t think so, because if we ever achieve that.Then we stop searching for peace everywhere and try to live with it.

There is always war is going on in our head.And it is also that war in which we think peace is in money, study, loved one or in god.

I say peace is in everything if we really wanted.But today we are not talking about how to attain that peace I am talking about peace is dangerous.

Yup, you’re thinking what I am trying to say?.

I am just trying to say that peace is dangerous because in order to achieve that peace we struggle our whole life, sometimes we do that, so sometimes we do that in hope to achieve peace.

We cannot stop running in our life in order to achieve that.But you people say we never run after peace we run after grades, money, loved ones, luxury, wealth etc.

Yup, exactly why you run after this things?.Because you feel peace when you achieve these things.You don’t even know about it.But, in the end, we all are struggling to find peace whether you believe it or not.

For example, you always try to make more bucks than your earning today.But why are you trying to make more money? it is because you feel that I am gonna in peace state when I have a lot of money.But you never achieve it even when you have a lot of money.So you move on and try to find peace somewhere else.

You people are thinking that it is an exact same like finding the happiness I just changed the word from happiness to peace.No, we can find happiness because happiness is for short span and we also achieve that but after some, it fades away whereas if you achieve that peace than it stays with you.

And let’s again assume that you have achieved that peace and if you don’t know anything about that peace first, then it might ruin your mind.

You are thinking what nonsense I am speaking? but first just let me hear out.

Your brain always struggle with the war of what is wrong? and what is right?.And suddenly that war which is going in your head stops.what you feel when suddenly a thing stops which you are so connected with it from your birth ends.And your brain feels free and light.Then it might again send you to the wrong direction even when you have that achieved that peace now you can’t deal with it.

And let again assume that we have achieved that peace, we get used to it.Then again one thought come in our mind and it completely destroys our peace and that thought is what if one day our peace is destroyed?

People say if you achieve that state of mind where the war ends.Then how can war again start over only on one thought?But the war has ended but our brain did never stop functioning.We always have thoughts in our brain.When your in that peace then you love that peace more than anything else in your life and we might also have fear of losing that peace.Due to this fear, our peace of mind ended.

I think peace is that weapon which helps us from this harsh world.If we use that weapon correctly than we can acquire the whole world. But if we don’t know how to use that weapon than we can even kill ourself.

Peace is like medicine just like medicine only effect on when we take proper doge.If we take more than doge then it has a side-effect on our body.But it doesn’t mean medicine is meant to harm us.It is made to cure us but because of our stupidity, we have to suffer from its side effects.Just like that peace is dangerous when you don’t use it properly but if you use it in the right way then you never wanted to leave that peace.

Construction & destruction is in peace take what you to want.

Be Negative

Hello!!!, everyone today we are gonna talk about peoples.In my opinion, peoples are of two types one is a “positive person” and other is a “negative person”.Other categories in which you classified humans can be divided into these two types.

Generally, people say if you’re positive person then you can conquer the world.But today let’s try to see the world with different perception.

But I think if you want to be successful in today’s modern world than you have to be negative.Yup, you read that correctly.So first of all, let’s talk about what is positive people? and negative people?

Generally, people say,

The person who always keeps a good attitude towards life is known as positive people.Like if something is not happened according to them in their life then they say if it does not happen then it does not happen for good we might don’t realize it today.But someday we will.These people always find good things even in bad things.

But who is negative person?

A negative person is a person who always keeps thinking negative.He thinks that he never gonna achieve anything in his life.He always thinks that whatever he love is gonna destroy nothing good will happen in his life.These people always find bad things even in good things.

For example, if a kid who keeps a positive attitude toward life cannot solve a math problem one day and he gets really tired of that problem.”But if he keeps a positive attitude that tomorrow is gonna be a different day”.And leave study for that day.And on next day with the help fresh mind, he easily solved that problem.

On the other hand, if that kid is a negative person and he gets really tired of that maths problem and wants to have a break for that day.Then he thinks that he cannot solve that problem today.So how tomorrow can be different?.So he continues to do work hard.And by hard work he solved that problem that day.

Some people say what if that negative kid think that he is never gonna solve that problem? And skip that problem.That might also happen but if he is dedicated to his study than he is not gonna run away from his study.And try to solve that problem because he is a negative thinking kid, not a lazy kid.

But on other hand that positive kid wastes that day by thinking that tomorrow is gonna be a different day.Whereas that negative kid solves that problem that day with hard work.

Positive people always live in hope that next second, next day, next month, next year is gonna be great.Whereas negative person thinks that nothing good is gonna happen.And by these thoughts negative person do hard work and make next second, next day, next month, next year great.

Let’s take another example:-

If we are planning to go on a road trip.A positive person thinks that everything is gonna be alright.If a thought of tire puncture come to his mind than he neglects that thought by thinking that everything is gonna be alright.

But if a negative person has planned to go on a road trip than if that thought of tire puncture comes to his mind than his gonna double check tire and might carry an extra spare.

And if really tire got punctured in the middle of the road with your family than a negative person has that spare tire.

But positive person again thinks that everything is gonna be alright.

But some people say that negative person might cancel that road trip because of that thought of tire punctured.Yup he is gonna cancel that road trip if he is a coward person, not because of a negative person.

A positive person always thinks of today, tomorrow, or the day after tomorrow.But on the other hand.Negative person thinks of past week, current week, and upcoming week.He always prepares for anything.

For eg:-

A positive person saves some money and says if any financial problem is gonna come.Then we have some money and gonna figure out that problem solution when that problem comes.

On the other hand, a negative person always prepares for worst he saves money for 10 different problems.And if more than one problem comes he easily solves that problems with that big savings.Whereas positive person does not have any options left except thinking that everything is gonna be alright.But only positive thinking cannot gonna solve that problem.

According to me if a positive person prepares for bad.So negative person prepare for worst and we can say that by above example this preparation of negative person always became fruitful.

But being a negative person also have disadvantage you never have mental stability.You always have to work hard physically and mentally both.

I am not saying that become a negative person.But in my opinion, negative person is more hardworking in nature.The whole world lay stress on becoming a positive person than who I am? to say that be a negative person.

But according to me,

A positive person walks on the flower bed to achieve their goal.

On the other hand, a negative person has to walk on the road of cactus to achieve a goal and if he walked down on that road he can achieve even bigger goals even than he set for himself.

After reading this article many people have made their mind that I am a negative person and trying to promote my type of peoples and trying to partial towards positive people.But first of all, let me clear this I am not a positive person nor negative I am just a person who is trying to see the world with the different perception.In other words, you can say that I am trying to look at the positive side of negative people.

I am not saying that negative peoples are better than positive people or positive people is better than negative people.According to me positive and negative attitude both are the way of perception the way how we see things?.

I am just trying to explore all sides of a negative person.Because we humans always look at one side of coin.we always say that being the negative person has a disadvantage.And always lay stress on being a positive person.But if we change our perception than we see,

Negative in a positive attitude.

&

Positive in a negative attitude.

Thinking In The Box

Hello!!!, everyone today we are gonna talk about a thing which is everyone wants to do which is thinking out of the box.Many people believe in thinking out of the box.We humans always want to be successful.And in order to achieve that success, we must need out of the box thinking.First, let know the meaning of thinking out of the box.

Thinking out of the box is a metaphor that means to think differently, unconventionally, or from a new perspective.

We all want that we have that type of ideas that are out of the box idea.And many people have them they really think out of the box and create or invent something unique.All today’s modern world success is given to those people who think out of the box.Because without innovation we cannot make progress in our life.

  • These people became great.
  • These people don’t write.
  • People write about them.

And if you want to become great, people say you have to think outside of the box.

That is true.

Right.

But I don’t think so,

I think if we want to become successful we have to think in the box because if we think out of the box and put all our time, energy, money, everything in it and if it didn’t go according to plane than,

Than what,

Cry.

For example:-

If I say I have that out of the box idea that I am gonna make a rocket to Pluto and put 25 years of my life, my energy, my money, everything in it.And on launching day we saw that rocket into fireworks.

Then I am doomed.But what if I think I am gonna start cycle making factory.Then if I become successful, then I am gonna start car factory.Then if I do more hard work, earn money and knowledge and with some luck.Then one day I am gonna assemble a team of the finest rocket scientist and really built a rocket to Pluto.

Some people say that I am out of my mind by saying all these things.You think that because I gave you whole plan to it which seems difficult but it its has a chance of success.But if I say I am gonna do my first idea of direct building rocket.Then you say, This is out of the box idea.

What if I say our ancestor.Who build wheel directly say that I gonna am build car.No that’s not how it works.It takes time, energy, money, well planning, evolution, blood, sweat etc and after all this these happened we get these,

Wheel-> chariot-> cycle-> car-> plane.

What if??? Thomas Edison directly thinks that he is gonna invent television than he were never gonna get us our first electric bulb.

But after some time, knowledge and experience.Philo Farnsworth, John Logie Baird Charles, Francis Jenkins invented television.

What if? Mark Zuckerberg think at the beginning that he is gonna start Facebook with 2.2 billion users then he will never gonna be able to launch Facebook.But he does not start like that he started Facebook with his fellow college mates in his college and after time and hard work he is now where he is.

By all these examples I am not trying to prove that out of the box thinking is bad.I just mean that before doing or starting anything we have to look at all circumstances which are our intelligence, our manpower, our money capacity etc.Because only unique thinking never gonna get you anywhere.You need the plan to execute that idea and let you toward success.In brief, we have to think in the box that what things are in the box and how we can use them to become successful.

I am just trying to say that there is a fine line between unique and ridiculous idea and you always have to see this.

I know lot people who say if I am gonna do anything then I gonna do something big, something out of the box and in these way they did nothing and ruin their life.

And on the other hand, if your gonna start doing something then your gonna make something out of the box.Only thinking is never gonna led you anywhere hard work is always the only key to achieve success.No matter what hard work whether it is in creativity or in physical.

So, in the end, I am gonna say think out of the box but in the box.

Swearing Is Bad.Is It ???

Hello!!!, everyone today we are gonna talk about a topic we like very much.we always use that topic every day.We all come from different background, different culture, different states, different nation.

We all follow a different religion, different languages. But in all languages, there is one language that exhibits in all languages that is foul language or swearing.

First of all what the f@#k is swearing???.

Okay, sorry.

Foul language or swearing generally means the use of offensive language.

We all are taught from our childhood that we always speak a good decent word and yet we all speak offensive words.

In today’s modern world “everyone uses foul language whether it is a comedian who uses it to entrain his audience or politician to win election or singers to attract people and feel connected with them or athlete who speaks the foul language to express their emotions on the field”.

So if everyone speaks it.So it is good thing.

Right definitely, it is.

Even research shows that if two men are put in a frozen lake and one is allowed to speak an abusive word and another one is not. Then the person who speaks abusive language might stay longer in the lake.

So let’s start,

F@#k, a##h@l!.

Yup, it increases our strength so what???.Speaking offensive word everywhere that’s not cool.We cannot do that. And even if we do we can get into legal trouble.Because swearing is a crime.

So, we come to point that swearing is good but we cannot do it every time.But actually, when we use bad words.We use bad words when things are getting out of control.We rarely speak foul words when we are happy.We use foul language most of the time when we are losing.

So,

Foul language= mental instability (mad)

Some people right now thinking that this a**h%^e is the most intelligent person on earth and all other are mad.I am not saying that mad people speak foul words.Foul words are spoken when we are unhappy and not in our mind presence.

I also speak foul words when I see negative comments on my article that’s because I am unhappy and after speaking foul words I feel much more relaxed not because I improved my article but because I let that anger out and move on.
But if I do not speak foul words.Let that anger inside me, all that negative comments inside me.Then I am gonna try to improve my article with the help of that fire of anger and negative comment which is burning inside me.

In other words, people do swearing when things are not in control but what if we take things in our control instead of swearing.

Right now there is a debate going on and it is on the heat that people speaking the foul language is degrading our society.But “I think foul language is no reason for degrading our society it is the mentality of people”.Why think of the foul word as foul word, think as a form of emotion, then we try to move on from.Just like we move on from our break up slowly and steadily.

Swearing is just like a dragon who releases fire from his mouth.

But in swearing, we speak fire of foul words which is burning inside us.If we realize it than we might become cool at that time.But we cannot achieve anything.

Speaking foul language is easy and effective for you.But if we you want to achieve something let that fire burning into you always.

In the end.

It is your choice .

Speak something.
Or
Be something.

USERNAME: HUMAN BODY PASSWORD: *******

Hello!!!, In today’s modern world word ‘password’ is most important to us.Whether it is of social media account, bank account, of our phone or any other account.

We didn’t share these passwords, to our friends, loved ones, family etc.because we care about these passwords so much that we cannot even trust our family members with it.And you create these passwords so complicated that no one can figure out.

But what if I say you know all these passwords but you don’t ‘password’ of your body.

Yup, that’s right.Our body also has password.

Let’s assume we have a ‘username’ which is our ‘human body’ just like any other username of any account all username appear same with slightly different.But to unlock secrets of that username we must know the password.And just like that, every username has a different password.So the ‘password’ of our human body is also different for everyone.

But what is that ‘treasure‘ behind that password?I can assure you that this treasure is more expensive than whole world’s money, diamonds, gold, platinum, etc.

So lets first talk about our prize because we human first want to know about our prize than we work to gain that prize.So what is that prize or that hidden treasure in our body?It is that treasure which is gonna change your life or gonna make your life successful.

That treasure is “being emotionless“.But what is “emotionless”?.To understand this first we have to know the meaning of emotions.

a strong feeling deriving from one’s circumstances, mood, or relationships with others is called emotion.We always do things according to our emotions.In other word emotion control us.

For example:-

We feel sad, when we are upset from something or someone or we feel happy in good time.When someone does something wrong then we feel angry at them.

So what’s wrong with?.It is natural you people think.Yup, it is completely natural.

But Being in ’emotionless’ state is not feeling good, not feeling bad, not feeling scared, not feeling pride, not feeling angry or not feeling low or high.

But some people now are thinking not feeling bad is okay but why we do not feel good?.I say both good and bad feeling is equal ‘dangerously ‘ .Yup that’s right dangerously because if you have a feeling of ‘good” inside you about something then one day you are gonna feel bad when that thing is gone.

So you are thinking living like that is just like nonliving being.Just like non living being cannot feel anything we also don’t have to feel anything.No, I am not saying that ‘you have to feel nothing’ I am saying you have to be in ’emotionless state’ which is always staying in the same state no matter how happy you are or how sad you are.You cannot get angry at someone despite their mistake.And you cannot feel sometimes low or sometimes high if you meet that emotionless state.

“In the emotionless state, emotions can’t control you but you can control your emotions”.

The emotionless state is like drugs the only difference is that in drugs you feel high for some time but if you achieve emotionless stage than you achieve your ‘original truth’.

So what we have, we have username,our inside treasure but again, we don’t have a password.So what is password??.

Okay first tell me how complicated you have set your password for a bank account, social media account. You have put numbers, capital letter, small latter, symbol everything so that no one can ‘crack’ it.

So now we have to crack that password which God has created.Yup that’s gonna tough but that password is different for everyone.

  • For someone, it is easy to crack.
  • For someone, it is hard to crack.

But what is that password?That password is your “soul”.Yes, that’s right you just have to find a little of yourself.So how an account work it requires a correct username and password and if we have that we can open that account.

Our soul always travels from one place to other from inside our body.So if we put our ‘body and soul together’ than we can find that unique treasure of ‘being emotionless’.

For some people, it is easy to put your soul and body together.For some it is difficult.But how can we put our soul and body together?We can do this by “self-determination, by meditation or by doing good deeds” as I mentioned earlier it is different for everyone.

So now we have

USERNAME: HUMAN BODY

PASSWORD: SOUL

ENTER TO OPEN ;

CLICK ‘ENTER’;

PLEASE WAIT…

PLEASE WAIT…

PLEASE WAIT…

“YOU HAVE SUCCESSFULLY LOGIN TO EMOTIONLESS STATE”